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There is a post on the Internet:
A child asks his mother: Mom, do you say that it is not easy for men or women?
Before the mother had time to speak, the child's father said: Of course, it is not easy for men. It is so easy for women. It is enough to not go to work and bring children for a lifetime.
The mother nodded and agreed: Yes, women are so easy, easy to get fat and old, easy to get thinner, easy to sleep, easy to ugly, easy to have double thick hands; easy Anxiety is easy to dry, and it is easy to sleep well; it is easy to be anxious and easy to get angry, and it is easy to become an old woman...Before I got married, I said that I would be my He Han, but my palace was cold, my body was cold, my heart was cold and my stomach was cold. Women must treat themselves better.
I have a lot of emotion when I read this post. In fact, it is not easy for men and women, but women are not afraid of tiredness or hardship. The most feared thing is that the person next to me does not understand me and often complains about myself. Is wrong.
Yesterday was Women’s Day . In the eyes of men, yesterday was Valentine’s Day or gift giving, but in the eyes of most women, it was Labor Day .
I have a good friend who received a red envelope from her mother yesterday. The good friend used the red envelope money to order a takeaway for her dad so that her mother can take a day off. She told her mother: Women's Day is not Labor Day, and occasionally give herself a holiday. Only if you love yourself, others will love you.
Women’s Day is not Labor Day
The following friends’ self-reports:
My mom is 58 years old this year, my dad is 60 years old this year, and my dad is a bit macho in his eyes . Women should cook, clean and do housework. Even if my mother is sick, my mother does all these tasks. He never helps. If my mother doesn't cook, our whole family will have to be hungry.
My mother is an honest person, always working hard, she only knows how to hold back when she has pain and tears, and she rarely hears my mother complain.
My dad is a person who doesn’t know how to be romantic. My mother has been married to him for so many years. He has never given my mother any gifts or said nice words. He even thinks everything my mother should do. of.
My mom and my dad had a divorce. As children, we support my mom's divorce from the bottom of our hearts. But these years, they have been living together, noisy and noisy, neither happiness nor unhappiness.
Yesterday was Women's Day. In my dad's eyes, except for the Spring Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival, other festivals are not festivals. My mother is different. No matter what holiday it is, she will take the initiative to give us red envelopes because she always likes to give us the best.
Yesterday I received a red envelope from my mother, and also sent a red envelope to my mother. I will pick up my mother early and take her to play for a day. My mother has already gotten in the car, but she still wonders what should I do if my dad has no food for lunch? I told my mother that I had ordered takeaway for my dad,He eats takeaways at noon and evening. You must take a good rest today and treat yourself well. Unexpectedly, my mother said: What if you get angry?
When I heard this, I was shocked. After a while, I was relieved. It turned out that my mother loved her father more than she loved herself. No matter what time she was thinking of her father, in her heart, there were only others, and she had no self for a long time. It is not easy for me to change my mother. I can only take my mother to eat, drink and have fun, so that she can learn to love herself.
This day I took my mother to have breakfast. After breakfast, I took my mother to do her hair, and then go shopping, eat food, watch movies, etc. I went shopping with my mother, just like good girlfriends, talking and laughing, but in the process, I knew that my mother was still worried about my dad, so when I was shopping, I did not forget to buy some gifts for my dad.
Mother had a very happy day. During the Spring Festival, she was all alone in visiting the family, visiting relatives, and cooking. After so much hard work, one day I can finally relax.
I went shopping with my mother, and I told my mother: must love yourself, you are a mother, a wife, and a grandmother, but you are also yourself. You must be yourself before you can become these characters. Love yourself first and then go. Love others.
Women's Day is not Labor Day. It is Labor Day every day. Today, I have to relax and enjoy life.
This is the story of my good friend and his mother. She said: My mother used to take us to play, but now we grow up, we take our mother to enjoy life.
A woman is herself first
In the seventh season of "Span23span Wonderful Flower Talk " there is such a problem: mother is not at home.Should crazy star chasing be blocked?
The final result of this debate is 65:25. Most people support it and should be blocked. This result is the same as I expected, because in the eyes of most people, how can a mother not have a family? How can mother go crazy chasing stars? In case it flashes to the waist, who will take care of my dad?
At the end, Brother Kang Yong said: 's mother is getting older, and it is likely that she will always live in memories. She has no present and future, but her mother is chasing stars, and her mother has the present, we should congratulate her.
That's right! Mother has now, why don't we support it?
In real life, how many mothers dare not have a family, and how many mothers are crazy to chase stars? Since becoming a mother, there is no present and no future. Strong1strong is just like "Thousand Miles", whose names are "lost" and become XX mother and XX wife.
If my mother is chasing stars now, she has no family, she is crazy, she has dreams and herself, why don’t we support it? Is it because she is a mother, so she will be the "other" for a lifetime?
My friend's mother mentioned above does laundry, cooks, and cleans 365 days a year. There is no easy day. Finally my daughter took her mother out to play, what should I do if my mother is worried but dad has no food to eat?
The recently hit movie "Hello, Li Huanying" see how many people cried, before my mother became a mother,The first is herself. After her mother became a mother, she lost herself.
Mother is still a mother, but she is no longer herself.
Mom is really great. She burned herself and made this family.
However, I hope that all mothers will become themselves and live for themselves for the rest of their lives.
Mom can chase stars, mom can take vacations, mom can stick to her hobbies, mom can do whatever she wants, even if she doesn't have a family, what can we do? At least mother is herself.
At the end of the writing:
Mom is still a mother, and the children have grown up, let them take their mothers to have fun! Enjoy life, love yourself, live yourself.
Mom is old and no longer young, stop letting her live in memories, let her live in her own world, support her mother's ideas, and let her chase her dreams bravely.
This is how our mother looked when she was young
Today's topic:
01. Launch a survey for married women. If time comes back, will you still get married? Will you still marry the current man?
02. Mother is not going home, she is crazy chasing stars, do you want to stop it?
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