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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with each other. The relationship between the two parties. This relationship can also be said to be a difficult problem that almost every family will encounter. If you want to develop and maintain such a relationship, you must understand this truth from the standpoint of your daughter-in-law.
That is if your mother-in-law has really helped yourself during these few periods, then even if there is a big gap between you and your mother-in-law, your daughter-in-law should abandon it.
If the mother-in-law actively helped the daughter-in-law in the following period, the daughter-in-law should be content
①Daughter-in-law is pregnant especially during the first pregnancy
When the daughter-in-law is pregnant for the first time, you can Even the most powerful daughter-in-law is a little white in this respect, and almost has no experience at all, and the mother-in-law, as a past person, can say whether it is the pregnancy reaction of in the early pregnancy , and what are the precautions for each period of the whole pregnancy , It is still the issue of the check-up, or the more professional and more important matters such as contractions in the third trimester of pregnancy, see red, broken water, etc., she needs to know more about it and have more experience.
At this time, if the mother-in-law can do her best to know what she knows, and the daughter-in-law has had confusion or unnecessary worries due to unawareness or inexperience, the mother-in-law can answer the questions to the daughter-in-law in time and tell her What can and cannot be done by the daughter-in-law. In short, the mother-in-law will accompany her daughter-in-law to make various contributions throughout her pregnancy. As a daughter-in-law, she should be content and grateful.
②Dirty-in-law's confinement period
Some daughter-in-laws said that because their mother-in-law took care of her confinement,And she did various works during her confinement period , so when she was out of confinement, she and her mother-in-law had a relationship. Since then, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has plummeted, and confinement enmity has also followed. And the daughter-in-laws remembered the things during their confinement a long time later, but it was a long time that they could not let go. Many daughters-in-laws understand this truth.
is the same. It can be said that even the daughter-in-laws were unhappy with the mother-in-law due to various problems before confinement, but when they confinement, the mother-in-law can put aside all prejudices and do her best Ability to take good care of the daughter-in-law and prevent her daughter-in-law from falling into confinement . Then the daughter-in-law will be grateful to the mother-in-law in all kinds of confinement. Not only will they forget the unhappiness they had with their mother-in-law, they will even be able to do it without care when the mother-in-law does things that make them unhappy afterwards on other issues. The reason is that the mother-in-law has treated herself sincerely and sincerely in the most difficult and critical thing for herself.
③The first and most difficult three years after a child is born
No matter how great a mother is, it can be said that in the first few years after the child is born, especially the first three years, it also needs someone Come and help. This is especially true for a daughter-in-law who has little parenting experience as a mother for the first time. If the mother-in-laws can take the initiative to help the daughter-in-law bring the children during the three most difficult years, or do housework, share some of the hardships and difficulties of the daughter-in-law. So for the daughter-in-law, it should be very content, because the old man does a lot of things to help you, it is the same as if he doesn't help you, but the old man can take the initiative to help the daughter-in-law when it is difficult, and does not care about his own gains and losses. . Daughter-in-law should be content and grateful.
The mother-in-law was also a daughter-in-law, and a daughter-in-law will become a mother-in-law one day. There is a saying that women should make trouble for a woman, not to mention each other is a nominal family, so whether you are a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, many things are unnecessary Too much care. Regardless of your identity, you only need to stretch out your hand when the other party is in difficulty and you happen to be capable, and you don’t say anything.The other person will also be grateful and give you more back when you need it.
【 today’s topic ：Did your mother-in-law’s actions satisfy you during your most difficult periods? ] _P2p
.I don’t know where it came from, keeps getting deeper . In this occasionally bad but also the best era, I hope that the "lover" will not be disappointed in the end.
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