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The fable of half a glass of water
There is such a fable that two people want to explore a new life on the other side of the desert through the vast Gobi. They knew that there was an old city ruins in the middle of the desert. The descendants of the old city ruins placed two glasses of clear water on the two roads next to the old city to save lives for those who crossed the desert. Braving the hot sun, the two went through hardships and trekking, and walked into the old city separately along different roads.
When the first person arrived in the old city, the water he brought with him had already been drunk, and he found the legendary water cup for replenishing life-saving water. When he found that there was only half a glass of water, he began to complain and curse, and hate how the people walking by drank half of the water in the glass. At this time, another strong wind blew and scattered the sand in the water. While still complaining about not being able to drink, a gust of wind blew away the water glass in his hand, so he soon died in the desert.
When the second person arrived in the old city, he had already drunk the water he brought and was exhausted. After hard work, he also found the water glass, which was also half a glass of water!
He thanked God for his gift, took a drink and drank it, and walked into and out of the desert hopefully.
Fable reflection
If a person encounters unsatisfactory things, if there are only negative complaints, curses, and accusations, favorable time and opportunities will be lost in the negative emotions, and the result may be nothing!
If you look at reality with hope, gratitude and a positive attitude, you will have tremendous spiritual power to support yourself and continue to move towards more positive and optimistic beauty.
nine types of people look at half a glass of water
optimist
pessimist
realist
physicist
surrealist
relativist
utopian
skeptic
artist
Which category do you belong to?
Optimist: always a high-stride mental state,Full of curiosity about this world, I always feel that all people and things will become better, a positive attitude makes my life full of fun, and I feel the extraordinary meaning of life from my heart!
Pessimist: Maintain an indifferent attitude towards the world, think that one's own abilities are insufficient, dare not compare and compete with others, always feel that one's own life is bleak, others' lives are full of bright, always Feeling shrouded in the shadow of others, the world is dark!
Realist: think that life is the most practical thing, everything in reality, and doing things, as long as the results can be achieved, the process does not need to be perfect, nor full of idealization. They use the most practical conditions and methods to achieve the desired results.
Physicist: A scientist who explores and studies the composition and operating laws of the world, who can objectively explore and summarize the laws of facts in the world.
Surrealists: To resolve the conflict that has always existed between dream and reality, and to achieve an absolute reality, a transcendent reality. They even think that in addition to the real world, there is a so-called "other world", that is, the unconscious or subconscious world. The latter world is more real than the former.
Relativist: There is no absolute right or wrong in opinion, only They oppose each other due to different positions and conditions; the implicit premise claimed by relativists is based on the fact that it is absolutely applicable to all things, denying the existence of universally valid truths but also asserting that they are universally valid truths.
Utopianism Author: I believe that utopia is the perfect prospect that mankind hopes for, while history is the imperfect prospect that people are creating. The two are not the same; even the inconsistency between the two gives utopia a morally sentimental meaning and historical significance. Vagueness. Morally, utopia may be a "blessed land", but in history, it may be a "land of nowhere"!
Skeptics: rational and irrational, both are opposite Some things hold a negative wait-and-see attitude. The former is a wise man who is good at thinking, likes to ask questions and think about problems, and never blindly qualitatively determine the essence of things. Many outstanding people can often achieve something; the latter may suffer from mental illness.Suspicious of everything. Skeptics can generally accept it after listening to authoritative and credible experts!
Artist: an artist who has a certain aesthetic foundation, has a high aesthetic ability and skilled creative skills, and is engaged in artistic creation with certain achievements; performing artistic creation activities, usually refers to such as design, writing, painting, Sculpture, music, photography, performance, calligraphy, dance and other artistic fields have relatively high achievements, and like to show themselves through artistic innovation.
Tong Zhaojing, national secondary psychological counselor, doctor, postdoctoral, associate professor, master tutor, has long been engaged in mental health education, psychological disorder treatment, counseling and group training.
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