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First grade freshmen have been starting school for nearly two months, and the most basic Chinese pinyin in Chinese subjects has basically reached the end stage. The children were still competing with the initials and finals, but I inadvertently remembered a joke from my early years.
Two students who are learning Chinese pinyin had a conversation after class. A classmate asked: "What is the initial consonant ? " Another classmate said: "The biological mother is the mother who gave birth to you." "What is the final vowel?" Another classmate thought for a while and said: "The pregnant mother is the mother who was pregnant."
turned to the topic. The movie I want to chat about today tells the absurd story of a single "pregnant mother" who began to find a "subordinated woman" in order to allow her child to settle down after birth.
movie " Looking for Han Scheme " starring Ren Suxi , Li Baotian , Wang Zichuan , and Zhang Benyu. This is a realistic film focusing on the previous birth policy and social issues, and it is also a controversial comedy with polarized reputation.
The most intuitive proof is that the positive and negative reviews on a certain petal are basically the same, with the proportion of 3 stars exceeding 45%, and the comprehensive score is 6 points, which is considered a passing score that is neither up nor down. The plot of the movie revolves around the divorced young woman Wang Zhao. She was bullied and mocked in the company, and was at the mercy of her colleagues, doing things that others had assigned to her all day long, and was busy.
She lives with her grandfather, and her mother and younger brother come to "scape" some things from time to time. Her younger brother always reaches out to ask her for money, and the task of taking care of the elderly also falls on her.
After divorce, she found out that she was pregnant with her ex-husband's child. After the two failed, Wang Zhao, who had been pregnant for the third time, decided to give birth to the child, but in order for the child to settle down normally in the future, she hopes to find a man who can be kept in the dark to get married.
With the help of her grandfather, she went on blind dates everywhere and was even willing to be fond of her male colleagues with bad intentions, but in the end there was no substantial progress.
Through online games, she met a master named Du Weimo, but unexpectedly found that he was a very good "friend" of grandpa. In order to give the child a household registration, the grandfather and grandson decided to let Du Wei be the "sucker".
was just the last step. Wang Zhao couldn't bear it. She confessed to Du Wei the truth that she was pregnant and wanted to find a father for the child.
Du Wei, who had already had a good impression of Wang Zhao, could not accept the fact that he was deceived. He came to Dali while escaping from the cruel reality while thinking hard about his emotional journey.
Wang Zhao and his grandfather found Dali all the way and wanted to apologize to Du Wei in person. Du Wei's attitude changed drastically. He was willing to become the person who "loved to be a father" and take the path he wanted to go, and ignore the rumors that he could not change in his life.
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From the subtitles behind the end of the film, it can be inferred that the time when this movie happened should have happened before 2016.
Because, on January 14, 2016, the State Council issued the " Opinions on Solving the Issues of Registration of Household Registration for Personnel without Household Registration ". It clearly stipulates that people without household registration who have children without wedlock can apply for settlement after paternity test, , , , idlers with children with wedlock enjoy the same legal rights and interests as those with children with wedlock .
The most controversial thing about the film is that after Wang Zhao became pregnant, he tried every means to find a man who had to wear a cuckold for the rest of his life to get married. This is also the most important narrative clue of the whole movie, connecting all inner conflicts and emotional conflicts.
Many viewers criticized Wang Zhao's approach, believing that she would do anything to make her child settle down and deliberately deceived the men around her. Some people say that "being a mother is strong", and even if you cannot settle down, you can support your children through your own efforts.
In fact, in the video, Wang Zhao could never overcome the hurdle in her heart. She did not do anything to achieve her goals. Whenever the last moment comes, she always chooses to give up because of her inner hesitation and self-blame.
For example, when she was hesitating whether to go back to find a male colleague who just wanted to take advantage of her all day, two skewers saw that she was disgusted and wanted to vomit, so she immediately changed directions and fanned her without letting the choking smoke hit her.
This inadvertent action made Wang Zhao break his defense instantly, and she realized the kindness and care from strangers. This strange but warm favor forms a sharp contrast with her unpopular work and her humble voice in life, which makes her muster up the courage to give up, be responsible to herself and be kind to others.
Wang Zhao knew best that her body and age allowed her to do her best to protect the child in her womb. She just wants to give birth to her own child, not to give birth to a child for those who abandon it.
When grandpa asked her who the child was in her belly, she said it was "mine", which just means that she just wanted to save the child's chance of having a child out of her mother's instinct. No matter whether she wants to "be a cow and a horse" for the person she hurt in the future, whether she has to bear the burden of raising her children alone or not, she has no regrets.
If this is not considered "for mothers, they are strong", I really can't think of how inhumane demands those who claim to be objective and fair can make such mothers?
Wangzhao's approach does not really make a so-called objective and fair evaluation. Just as the social discussion aroused by the movie "Left and Right" adapted from the real event, in order to save their children with leukemia , parents of children who re-established a new family do something unethical. How should they evaluate their behavior and motivation?
Coincidentally, the TV series " Dear Kid " adapted from "Left and Right" is also starring the powerful actor Ren Suxi.
The drama has also triggered extensive discussions about "fertility anxiety". Is it directing the real social phenomenon, reflecting on the relationship between human nature and ethics, or deliberately selling social anxiety to create fertility panic, and the answer is in the hearts of the people.
fairness may not be in place in time, but it will definitely not be absent. It is the most difficult to integrate knowledge and action.
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Compared with "Looking for the Han Scheme", the alias of the film " I can't help but " can better reflect the bitterness and helplessness of being a mother.
Of course, this film is marked with a comedy film on the type tag, and the necessary comedy elements run through the information difference between people.
For example, the feeling of intimacy between Du Wei and Wang Zhao when chatting in the game and the sense of strangeness that when they first met, they created a lot of jokes. The comedy atmosphere of the
video is also reflected in some ironic dialogues. For example, grandpa said: "Self-esteem, what else do you want that thing to do?!" Wang Zhao said after being fired by the company: "If you quit, no one will work."
In addition, Du Wei can be regarded as the comedy leader of the whole film. Although he does not deliberately make jokes or pretend to be stupid, he can present the Beijing-style humor in the bones of Beijingers just right.
Du Wei seems to be idle all day long and does not seek motivation, but in fact he is enthusiastic and kind, and reasonable.
His and his grandfather Wang Zhao prove that he is a person who lives a very transparent and down-to-earth life.
But he has the pride and stubbornness unique to Beijingers. He is simple in his heart, which means he speaks more straightforwardly, which easily gives people the illusion of intentional confrontation.
The thing he most violated is that even though he knew that marrying Wang Zhao would become a "subordinate" for his whole life, he still did his own way.In his value system, the scope given by his parents' generation and the current conventional rules are all a waste of effort. We can only walk through what kind of path it is.
It is this stubbornness that makes this person born in the world but different from being in the world full of unique human brilliance.
, including Wang Zhao, think that the winner will be unlucky next, but Du Wei doesn't believe this evil.
"If you win the lottery, you will be unlucky? But am I scared? I am not afraid, don't be afraid. This is like a traffic jam. If someone else leaves, you will leave. What are you afraid of?"
Du Wei's philosophical words indeed reflect his unusual personal charm, but his attitude towards "Happy to be a father" is a bit too sudden and inexplicable.
But no matter what the purpose is, what he cares about is not to follow the paths his predecessors have taken and not to be in harmony with the world.
You try every means, and I will follow the plan and do the opposite, and then I will have the opportunity to live by myself, live by myself, and die by myself.
The pictures in this article are from the Internet
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