Small topic: Parents with low EQ have inseparable responsibilities
EQ is a very important thing for a person. You will find that people with high EQ around you will have a smooth life. You will not feel the slightest discomfort with him.
If a person with high EQ wants to make friends with you, then in many cases you can’t actually refuse. No one will refuse to get along with people who have a special aura. So what kind of person has high EQ, What kind of people have low EQ? Li Meijin once said: is often seen by eating alone.
Children who grow up with low EQ usually have these 3 behaviors when eating
Xiaoli is the only child in the family, so her parents are more spoiled by her grandparents and grandparents. Maverick, Xiaoli’s grandma took Xiaoli to her aunt’s house this day, and her aunt cooked a large table of dishes, braised pork, lion head, pork belly stewed with sauerkraut, and fried yellow croaker.
Xiaoli saw that they were all her favorite dishes. She picked up the chopsticks and started eating, regardless of whether other people were on the table. After being stopped by her grandma, she was a little unhappy.
Finally, the dinner was officially opened after the family sat on the table. Xiaoli was sitting next to the braised pork. Xiaoli's aunt was good at cooking and the braised pork was very delicious.
Xiaoli herself doesn't like fatty meat, so she rummaged in the braised pork bowl to find lean meat , the drooling chopsticks turned over again and again, her grandma's eyes signaled Xiaoli several times I didn’t even bother, Xiaoli took that plate of braised pork as her own. Although her aunt didn’t like Xiaoli’s behavior,But for the sake of his mother, he also endured and did not speak.
Analysis:
Xiaoli's behavior is actually a low EQ performance. First of all, the elders did not go to the table, she had already started to move the chopsticks. This was the first step she did wrong. You like to eat something like braised pork, and others like it.
But because you love to eat, you take it as your own. doesn’t know how to share with others, and doesn’t know how to respect the elders at the dinner table. Such behavior will easily arouse people’s disgust, and even feel that The child's tutor is not good.
Here, the editor can tell you a little trick in life, a person’s EQ level can be seen when he eats. People with low EQ usually have these three behaviors when eating. The specifics are Which three? Take a look with the editor.
Three kinds of performances of children with low EQ at the dinner table
- 1. Strong1strong is rude at first, strong2_strong _ul69
0 first of all. As a junior, you shouldn’t use chopsticks first, and at the dinner table you have to know how to respect your elders. When your elders pick food for you or ask you something, don’t answer your elders when you have food in your mouth. Don't ignore the questions of the elders, you should answer politely, and occasionally bring some dishes to the elders.
Be ready to observe adding food or soup to the elders at any time. Don't make any noise when eating, and don't make a loud noise .If your behavior is contrary to what I said above, then your emotional intelligence is really not high.
- 2. only picks up dishes
Just picks up dishes in their own bowls, keeps picking the dishes that you like, and keeps picking them. This is in the northeast. What does it mean to get dark eyes? It means that after encountering a dish that I like to eat, my eyes are dark, no one can see it, and only cares about himself.
This kind of behavior at the dinner table does not matter if it is your own. But if there are elders or other friends here, what's more, you may be eating with the leader, and you say at the table to see the character, your character shows in front of the leader, then the leader may be Will have another impression of you.
- 3. turn the dish upside-down ul69ul
I really hate someone turning their salivay chopsticks over the plate while eating. Now People rarely have the habit of using public chopsticks. Strong1strong's own private chopsticks are flipped through the dishes. In fact, many people will mind , which is unhygienic. Such behavior will also be regarded as a manifestation of low EQ. , Easy to arouse people's disgust.
Summary:
It is really uncomfortable to get along with people with low EQ. Please remember that is straightforward and low EQ is two different things ,Don't use your own temperament to cover up the fact that you originally have low EQ.
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