First listen to a song and enjoy a poem: " As I Began to Love Myself ( when I really start to love myself ) ". This poem was written by Charlie Chaplin on the day of his 70th birthday. It is his reflection on the past and life. Read carefully, the heart is not alone.
As I began to love myself,
I found that
anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs
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When I really start to love myself,
I realize that
all the pain and emotional torture,
is just reminding me:
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This is called "real".
As I began to love myself,
I freed myself ofanything
that is no good for my health –
food,people,things, situations,
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At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism.
Today,I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.
When I start to really love myself,
I start to stay away from all unhealthy things,
Whether it’s food, people, things or the environment,
Stay away from dragging me and making me depart Everything about the true self.
I used to call this "healthy self-interest".
Today, I understand,
This is called "self-love".
As I began to love myself,
I quit trying to always be right,
and ever since I was strong Today p1strong discovered that is wrong less of the time. MODESTY.
When I really love myself,
I no longer always want to be right forever,
Since then,
I have made fewer mistakes.
Today, I understand,
This is "humility".
As I began to love myself
I refused to go onliving in the past
and worry about the Nowp, _strong2 Ip _strong1 for the strong moment , _strong1 the strong1 the strong Nowp, _strong2 where EVERYTHING is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT. I will no longer be addicted to the past, and will no longer worry about tomorrow. Now, I only live in the moment when all this is happening. Today, I live here and now, is so day after day, and I call this "perfect". As I began to love myself, I recognized that my mind can disturbme and it can make me strong heart sick. _strong2 Istrong strong connected it to my my mind became avaluable ally. Today I call this connection WISDOM OF THE HEART. When I really started to love myself, I understood p0 p , _P13p makes me bored. But when I am connected to my heart, The power of the soul has become my solid backing. Today, I call this connection "the wisdom of the heart". We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or strong with ourselves or others strong strong1 strong1 strong1 strong and others. crashing new worlds are born.
Today I know
THAT IS “LIFE”!
We no longer need to be afraid of disputes and conflicts in life,
or anything that appears with us p13p
or conflicts and problems with other people.
Because even stars collide occasionally,
forms a new world.
Today, I understand,
this,It's "life"!
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Bi Shumin said,
Only those who love themselves can love others.
What is true love for yourself?
First of all, cherish your body. Health and safety will always come first. This gentle and healthy body cannot tolerate trampling or neglect anywhere.
Secondly, we must take care of our soul. A person has to go through many things in a lifetime. Some things are like air, drifting away with the wind without leaving a trace, but some things are in the heart and can't go away for a long time. The heart is just that big, install more beautiful things, and prevent negative energy from occupying the new house. There is sunshine in the heart, and strength under the feet.
Life is dangerous, and destiny is difficult. It is not easy to live a life calm, open-minded, safe and peaceful. Young people don't understand, there is always some way to go by yourself, and it is destined to not be smooth sailing. But one day, I will look down on the clouds. At the trough, not resentful; at the peak, not swelling. Live every day seriously. You know, your love for life can be cute!
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