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Every parent takes "raising children" as a large part of their goals, as long as they can have better living conditions for their children , It’s nothing to work hard.
The harder the parents are, the more they hope that their children will have a great future and live a good life on their own.
So, how can you tell from your childhood performance that your child will be successful when he grows up?
Harvard University has conducted a survey to understand the families and childhood of 1,000 successful people over 30 years old, with an annual salary of more than 200,000 US dollars, and happy families. The results found that these people showed the following characteristics since childhood.
1. More self-disciplined
will have promising children when they grow up. They are usually more self-disciplined, that is, "there is business." They know when to do things when they are young, and there is no need for parents to urge them over and over again.
can control itself well in the face of mobile phone, TV and other games, and will not be addicted to it for a long time.
2. Popularity
Napoleon once said: who can manage their emotions is greater than the general who can win a city.
The knowledge of interpersonal relations and emotional management is no simpler than the content of the research of scientists. You can have a good relationship from an early age. When you grow up, you will get help from all aspects and it will be easier to get things done!
3. Not afraid of setbacks
is not afraid of setbacks in interpersonal relationships is "skinned" , when dealing with things "toughness" , to put it bluntly is to try again, do not give up any possible opportunity.
Children who are not afraid of frustration, usually are more active, more optimistic, and more confident . Since childhood, they have these positive qualities of , and children will certainly not be bad in the future.
Fourth, independent, self-considered
children who will have future prospects, since childhood, are more independent and self-considered , and can make their own decisions when encountering things. Children like
have strong decision-making ability and do not rely on others, and can attract help from others by their own charm, making it easier to become a leader. How does
help children become promising people?
In the case of the same educational background or even when the educational advantages are not obvious, a child with ability and good quality is more likely to succeed. Therefore, if you want to cultivate a promising child, it is not just for him to "study"!
Even before school age, children’s self-discipline, social skills, frustration resistance, independence and other good qualities and abilities are the most important.
wants to let children possess these abilities, on the one hand, parents must improve their children’s emotional intelligence and teach them to deal with social problems. On the other hand, it is necessary to let go, let the children go through all the responsibilities and sufferings they should bear.
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