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Speaking of thousands of parents recognized parenting experts, Professor Li Meijin is definitely the first to bear the brunt. Although Li Meijin is an expert in criminal psychology, her "Parenting Classics" has been sought after by thousands of Chinese parents.
When the three words "Li Meijin" are added to a parenting article, it will be forwarded and shared countless times among parents.
From the perspective of parents, Professor Li Meijin is very experienced in the education of children, and many parents are also beneficiaries of Li Meijin's "Parenting Classics". Therefore, Li Meijin's lectures are also full.
It stands to reason that such a parenting expert should be very easy to train his own children, and with such professional parents, it is inevitable that children will become talents.
After all, in the eyes of the public, the sons and daughters of those experts benefit from a good education, and they will not wait for them when they grow up.
However, as the status of Li Meijin's daughter was exposed, many netizens expressed their "disappointment" in surprise.
It turns out that Professor Li Meijin’s daughter is not as "promising" as everyone thinks. Although her mother is very powerful, she herself is very ordinary, just an ordinary music teacher.
In a talk show, Professor Li Meijin mentioned her daughter.
She confessed that her daughter is not a talented person. Although she usually studies very hard, her grades are always bottom in the class. It is common for her to fail math exams.
At this time, as a mother, Li Meijin didn't worry too much. She knew that her daughter hadn't made any progress even though she had worked very hard, which showed that she really had no advantage in learning.
and many living examples around me remind myself that forcing children to do things they don’t like will only cause serious psychological harm.
So she started to explore her daughter's points of interest. When she found that her daughter is very talented in music, Li Meijin shifted her focus to art.
Later, her daughter was admitted to an art college and became a music teacher.
Ordinary work, ordinary life, and the life of Li Meijin's daughter has caused many netizens to question. As a parenting expert,
allows children to become "transparent people" in society. This seems to go against the "Li Meijin Parenting Jing" that thousands of parents regard as the treasure.
Some netizens also said that although Professor Li Meijin’s daughter has not become a big entrepreneur or successful person, she is doing what she likes every day. Isn’t a healthy and happy ordinary life a success?
@ The theory of the little demon
Li Meijin was not to train children to become dragons and phoenixes in humans, but to make children have a bright and healthy personality. People who watch her theory videos don't want to learn how to make children stand out. Although
@ 啾啾
does not mean to discriminate against music teachers, I remember that the children of some experts are very good.
I don't agree with Li Meijin's way of happy education. Now the pressure of competition is too great, so I blindly comfort myself, "It's good to be an ordinary person". After that, it is the children who will suffer from entering the society.
@天涯
I like to listen to Li Meijin’s lecture very much. Although she said something rough, but everything is reasonable, she taught me some practical methods or techniques, and let me know what to do in special situations.
In fact, Professor Li has never said that she is a parenting expert. Her direction is criminal psychology. She advocates that children have healthy personalities and grow up happily. As for the future of the children, it is not entirely a matter of the parents.
@花开盛夏
What's wrong with ordinary people, they have a sound personality and a cheerful mind, isn't it good?
I think Professor Li Meijin’s daughter is very successful. She has a job she likes and her parents are reasonable. Now how many people can really live happily?
Message from mom
Each child has its own advantages and disadvantages, and for many parents who expect a child to become a dragon, "achievement" is the only measure of success.
Therefore, in order for children to achieve good grades, they do not hesitate to suppress their children's hobbies and promote their children as "successful people."
but ultimately neglected the child's physical and mental health development, causing the child to become a person with serious psychological problems.
Therefore, for parents, knowing how to appreciate children, how to tap children's interests, and how to redefine success is a question worth considering.
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