saw a very emotional question and answer on the Internet yesterday. The question is: Have you ever cried during the confinement? Unexpectedly, the number of answers actually exceeded more than 4000. And about 90% of people answered that they had cried during confinement, and some even said that they cried continuously for half a month during confinement.
Of course, most people in the answers also said that they actually know that crying in confinement is bad for your health, but they don’t know what’s going on. They become particularly emotional during confinement. In addition to the facts that are difficult to accept, they often do I couldn't help crying because of some small things.
1. What are the reasons why novice mothers cry during confinement
I have read most of the answers below. I concluded that the reason why most novice mothers cry uncontrollably during confinement is actually the following: Caused by several reasons.
1. The changes in the body make people more sensitive.
Generally, just after giving birth, the figure of novice mothers has not recovered so quickly before pregnancy, and even some novice mothers’ figures will be seriously out of shape, and if the novice mothers are particularly beautiful , I might feel sad every time I see myself. In addition, during the confinement period, Bao Ma's body hormones will become especially disordered, so Bao Ma will be more sensitive and fragile.
2, the panic of a new mother
There is a mother who claimed that she had been crying for a whole week in confinement because the baby was crying frequently, and she didn't know how to comfort her. One night, the baby woke up 5 times in total, and because of the need to feed the baby, Momma had to take care of the baby by herself, even if she couldn't open her eyes, she would force the baby to sleep.
3, Bao Dad doesn't care enough or does something unforgivable
If you want to say that in the confinement period, the novice Bao Mom's emotions can be most motivated, it must be Bao Dad. If Bao's father is able to take care of her carefully and patiently after the novice mother has given birth, she will definitely be happy. But Ruobao's father didn't care about Baoma when the novice Baoma was at its most vulnerable, and even did some unforgivable things. That minute could make Baoma cry, even frustrated.
4, conflicts with my family
remember that another mother said: I not only cried in confinement, but also cried out of hatred. Originally, her mother-in-law had promised to take care of her confinement, but the confinement was almost halfway past. When she called her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law was still shitting. She couldn't stand it any longer and wanted to invite a sister-in-law, but her mother-in-law came soon afterwards. What made her most uncomfortable was that although her mother-in-law came, she only occasionally hugged the child every day, and sometimes even asked her to cook to serve her mother-in-law. There is nowhere to tell the grievances in my heart. Even after two years, I still burst into tears when I think of it.
5, other factors
Of course, in addition to the above points, there are actually many reasons why novice mothers cry in confinement. For example, I feel very sad because I can’t wash my hair and take a bath, but I feel extremely uncomfortable. For example, I have a bad appetite during the confinement period, but the elders still don’t allow Baoma to eat a little salty meal. For example, because of some words of others ( Or rumors) and get hurt, etc.
Two, can you cry during confinement
After reading the reasons why Baoma cried in confinement, some of them are indeed crying even if Baoma does not have children. And many mothers also know that crying in confinement has many disadvantages.
, easy to cause eye discomfort : especially the long-term crying of novice Baoma, it is easy to cause problems such as dry eyes, eye pain, and even loss of vision.
, is not conducive to physical recovery : usually after giving birth, mother Bao's body is very weak. At this time, if the mood swings too much (such as low mood or sadness), it will easily have an adverse effect on Bao Ma's physical recovery.
, affect the normal secretion of milk (may return to milk) : Of course, in addition to the above two points, the frequent crying of novice mothers will also affect the normal secretion of milk. Presumably most of the mothers don't want their babies to cry because they can't eat enough, but often they just can't control themselves.
Although crying during confinement is indeed bad for physical recovery, Bao’s motherYou also need to cry occasionally to release your emotions. Or Bao Ma can also control her emotions by sharing with others and listening to music.
Conclusion
In short, although we all know that crying is not good in confinement, most mothers still can't control themselves. Of course, it’s not a bad thing to cry once in a while, but Bao Ma should make adjustments in time to maintain a good sleep and adequate rest, because only in this way can the body recover faster.
