Foreword: In fact, parents who have boys in the family are more anxious, because compared with girls, boys are more unruly and naughty. Especially in childhood, boys are more likely to get into trouble than girls, so parents are worried about their poor concentration. You know, after a boy has the ability to concentrate, he will be much better in class, and at least don't worry too much about studying.
Carey’s mother insists on "stocking" because she thinks boys should endure more hardships and exercise more. Compared with other children, Kerry's physical fitness has always been very good, and the popularity is also very good, almost the children around him like to play with him. But after arriving in kindergarten, the advantages that these mothers are proud of suddenly become disadvantages. The teacher reported that Kerry couldn't hold on for ten minutes in class, and his thoughts were simply too active. The point is that Kerry has already affected other children, which makes the teacher a particular headache.
From this point of view, Carrey’s mother’s stocking education is also wrong, because she doesn’t have much discipline, so Carrey’s personality is more casual, and she has almost no concentration. At this moment Kerima realized that educating boys is really not easy, especially hoping that they will perform well in every aspect. The next focus is naturally to cultivate the child's concentration, otherwise it is easy for a boy to "destroy" himself if he is overly naughty. In fact, the cultivation of concentration lies in the method. If parents can do three things cruelly, they can completely turn their children into good children with concentration and ability.
1. Work patiently
If the boy's usual concentration is not strong, then it is difficult for him to calm down and learn or do things. At this time, parents must let their children do things patiently. Perhaps this process will be more "torturous" because the children will be extremely resistant psychologically and physically, even crying, but parents must be cruel to make them persevere. Only by helping a child learn to deal with something patiently, can he get rid of his casual attitude towards doing things.
Parents should encourage their children to do it by themselves, especially in the case of ensuring health, parents should let their children try to complete it alone. Only in this way can children understand that it is not easy to do things, and of course they will cherish the fruits of their labor even more.
2. Regulating emotions
In fact, careful observation will reveal that boys’ attention and their emotions are closely connected, and those children with good attention have relatively peaceful emotions. If the concentration is not good, the child's mood is relatively irritable. So don't just remember to cultivate attention, more importantly, you need to remind children to adjust their emotions. For those unstable emotions, parents need to guide their children to vent or adjust them correctly.
The "irritability" emotions in boys are terrible, because impulsive characters are likely to do unpredictable things. Therefore, tell your children to speak out when you are in a bad mood, and don't hold them in your heart, otherwise the harm to your body will be too great. Good mood is the prerequisite for concentration, and it is really indispensable.
3. Read more
Presumably, a lot of children's time is spent playing, and there are few children who insist on reading every day, so naturally they don't understand the charm of reading. If you can develop the habit of reading for 30 minutes every day and stick to it, your child will get a lot of "superpowers." Because reading can improve concentration a lot, especially in the world of books, children will be more willing to think about the stories in the book.
Seriously, reading can calm down the mood. If immersed in the book, the child will naturally forget the complexity outside. Of course, it is still difficult for boys to fall in love with reading. This requires constant companionship from parents in the early stages.
Summary: The society will still put a lot of pressure on boys in the future, so pampering is the biggest harm to children. Parents remember not to spoil them, and be more "cruel" from now on.
