Recently, a girl riding a bike rubbed someone's license plate on a hot search.
A girl accidentally scratched the license plate of a private car while riding a bicycle in Shizuishan, Ningxia. In a hurry to go to class, the girl took the initiative to leave a note to apologize and write her phone number. After the incident, the owner of the car, Mr. Chen, called the girl's father to explain what happened, saying that he did not need compensation, and praised the girl for being responsible and honest.
Coincidentally, in June of this year, a "little perpetrator" in Wenjiang District, Chengdu, also triggered a series of "warm dramas":
On June 24, a junior high school student in Wenjiang Middle School Experimental School was accidentally riding a bicycle A private car parked on the side of the road was scraped. The boy waited for a while, but did not wait for the owner. Because "the most annoying person is the person who escaped from a car accident", he chose to leave an apology letter and contact information.
did not expect that the car owner not only forgave him, but also regarded the boy’s behavior as a deed to educate his child’s integrity. What’s more surprising is that when the auto repair shop learned of the situation, because of the boy’s good education, he decided to be the owner for free. service.
There are also children who ignored the "advice" of passers-by and insisted on being responsible to the end when they encountered such a thing, and were finally "punished" by a dollar.
In 2019, Jiangsu, an elementary school student accidentally scratched a private car on his way home from school. Because it was night, many passers-by advised the children to "hurry up", but the elementary school student insisted on leaving a note. Write down the parent contact information and apologize. After seeing the note, the owner of the car decided to ask the child for a dollar for the maintenance fee, because "the child has made a mistake, and he must be held responsible for his mistake." These children
are purely touching to us, but also make us think seriously: What is education? Someone teaches and some learns, it seems to be education.
But in fact, the purpose of education is to forge the soul of children and teach them to be educated people.
What is "cultivated"?
Let's take a look at the following children!
01
In the Tianjin subway car, a male passenger arbitrarily peeled garlic and sprinkled it on the ground. A girl in a school uniform squatted silently, took all the garlic skins on the ground in her hands, and took out of the carriage. The girl said: "That's how my parents taught me!"
02
Quanzhou, Fujian, suddenly hit a heavy rain, heavy rain. A high school student in Quanzhou No. 7 Middle School held an umbrella for an old man who was pushing a cart, but he got wet.
03
, a 13-year-old middle school student in Yichang, Hubei Province, spent more than 30 minutes lifting up the shared bicycles on the side of the road, wiping them clean and placing them neatly. He said: "I put them away, and someone will definitely be willing to ride them."
04
Guangnan County, Yunnan, a driver saw elementary school students riding forward, worried about insecurity, so he slowly followed behind. Use car lights to illuminate the night road for children. In the middle of the journey, the pupil suddenly got out of the car and bowed deeply for the driver.
05
On the subway, the boy accidentally spilled milk on the ground. The passenger next to him handed over a paper towel. His first reaction was not to wipe the clothes, but to squat down to wipe the ground, and carefully wipe all the spilled milk.
06
In Yulin, Guangxi, a little boy was hit by a tricycle and no one rescued it until a first grade boy from the sixth elementary school in Bobai Town came to the injured boy alone, bent down and both hands picked up the injured boy and dragged it When he reached a safe place nearby, he found a tissue to wipe him. The boy said: "The teacher teaches, if you see others in trouble, you must help."
07
During the epidemic this year, a little boy was sitting on his family’s motorcycle and met a scavenger on the road. He saw that the other party was not wearing a mask, boy. Turned around and went back to ask for a mask from his family, and put the mask on for each other.
08
In a supermarket in Hengshui, Hebei, two cute babies came into the store to buy things. The 5-year-old brother choseA bottle of drink, and found that there was no owner in the shop at the checkout. After putting the money on the counter seriously, he quickly grabbed his 1-year-old brother to prevent him from taking things.
09
On October 12, Qingdao, Shandong, a 5-year-old boy stood up and bowed to the medical staff after he finished the nucleic acid test.
What is "cultivated"? has integrity, dare to take responsibility, will be grateful, know right and wrong, be kind and helpful .
This is the best education for a family.
can find the answer in the parents because of the child's behavior.
Uncultivated parents
can't raise a child who knows the rules
Recently, a video of tourists from Beijing Zoo gathering together to feed wolves and graze caused heated discussion. In the
video, some parents ignored the “no feeding” regulations and stuffed the wolfhouse with weeds, branches, ice cream sticks, and even dried noodles through barbed wire mesh. After
was dissuaded by other tourists, the parents responded: "Did you feed the sulfuric acid or the pills?" He looked completely improper.
So, the child learns everything, desperately stuffing branches for the wolf to eat.
A child is just a piece of "white paper", and the parent is the person holding the paintbrush. What the child will become depends on how the parent "writes".
There is no child who understands courtesy, justice and shame from birth, and there is no bear child who is born to like to behave.
Parents' cultivation and upbringing of children are hidden in the parents' words and deeds.
The child looks at the adult talking, the child grows up like an adult, no matter how good or bad, the child will accept everything.
Those missing upbringings in children
will retaliate on their parents sooner or later.
Not long ago, a video of a little girl kicking her mother continuously and hard at a subway station sparked heated discussion.
Just because the mother got in the wrong car, the daughter cruelly treated her mother, and the mother not only did not educate the child, but also comforted the girl by saying that it’s okay and don’t be angry. Although the video of
is short, it seems to have seen every moment of the girl growing up: the first time
screamed and cried, the first time he insulted the elders, the first time he was arrogant and unreasonable, and the first time he was rude to others. When
happened every "first time", her parents never stopped or educate her, so she developed a bad ailment of "beating and scolding her mother" again and again.
Kneeling parents cannot raise a standing child.
The growth of a child is a one-way ticket with no return. It is necessary to teach the child the quality and upbringing when it is time to educate the child.
Children’s education originates from parents’ self-cultivation.
Children’s education is a comprehensive manifestation of their emotional quotient and IQ. It is the internalization and externalization of personality and living habits. It also comes from the family and learns from parents’ words and deeds. On the subway
, the child fell asleep, and his mother was worried that the child’s foot would kick the passenger next to him. She kept holding it with her hand:
In the shopping mall, the child accidentally spilled the porridge. Mom taught the child to clean it up:
After the yogurt box was thrown out the window, the father quickly got out of the car and picked it up, and gave the child a good meal:
Parents and children, after all, it is a farewell watching his back drift away. The best gift
can leave a child is "good education" and "good personality".
This is the best interpretation of the far-reaching plan for the beloved son of parents.
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