Parents often "change clothes" in front of their children, which will affect these three points, which should not be underestimated!
I believe everyone has heard a sentence: Children avoid mothers and daughters avoid fathers. This is an empirical education for children, which has a certain scientific basis, but many parents don't take it seriously. Some parents think that their children need to pay attention to bathing, changing clothes, and sleeping since childhood. It is precisely because of parents' carelessness that the probability of children making mistakes in the future is very high.
Xiaoli is a precious mother. Her son is nine years old and has just entered the first grade of elementary school. Because the child was born late, Xiaoli was already considered an older woman. As a result, she has an extraordinary love for her son, from his son’s food, clothing, housing and transportation to making friends, she is very attentive, because of this, the child's ability to take care of himself is very poor.
In addition, Bao’s mother is also very special, that is, she does not shy away from her children. When the child is so old, she still sleeps with the child every day, changing clothes in front of the child carelessly, and bathing the child herself from time to time. Although this is the mother's care, but this kind of behavior has great drawbacks.
Not long ago, the child's head teacher called and told her some things the child did in school. Children always bully girls, pull other people's pigtails, and even pick up other girls' clothes, scaring the girls and crying, and finally the girl's parents come to the door. After Bao Ma learned about this, her reaction was mediocre. She felt that the child was still young and it was normal to tease the girl. The girl's parents were very angry but helpless.
After this incident, the classmates began to alienate the boy, no matter what they do, no one wants to be with him. There is no problem with parents pampering their children, but if they don’t care about their identity, they are always "unscrupulous" in life, which can easily affect the child's character and cause indelible harm to the child's growth. So, what impact will children have on their children if they do not avoid their mothers?
1. Let the child blur the gender. Gender education needs to be educated from an early age, starting with the mother, the woman who has been with her child the longest. Many mothers attribute themselves to the category of elders, but forget that they are also women, and forget that their children should have a certain distance from them when they grow up. If the mother always does this, changing clothes in front of the child and sleeping with the child, the child will have a wrong understanding of men and women.
2, will have a certain impact on the child's character. If parents let their children form wrong perceptions, it is very likely that the children will be different from their peers, and they will be targeted and bullied. In this way, when children grow up, their personality tends to be more withdrawn and they treat things more extreme.
3, will lay a certain foreshadowing for children's future crimes. Nowadays, many sexual crimes are caused by wrong childhood education. If parents do not correct some of their children's behaviors, the children may be on a path of no return in the future.
In short, children’s gender education should be started from an early age, which not only allows children to form correct gender awareness, but also reduces the chance of children committing crimes to a certain extent.
