Hello everyone, I am Ai Xing, a family education instructor.
When a family is in physical pain, many parents are particularly pleased by the child's behavior. Usually, children who have never done housework take the initiative to take care of the family. When they see their mother is not feeling well, they take the initiative to give her delicious food. Such children really make their parents happy!
The son found that his mother was uncomfortable and could not sit up to drink water, so he used his body to support his mother, which made his mother particularly touched. The child is really too sensible. Netizens also think that such a child is here to repay his kindness!
The mother was pregnant and did not want her son to be infected. Unexpectedly, her son, who was only six years old, prepared fruits and meals for his mother, and even comforted his mother, saying that the infection is contagious! I think it can make my mother feel better and I won't be afraid of being infected.
After his parents fell ill, they were happy to find that their children grew up all of a sudden! He became filial and sensible, and did not leave his mother who was in pain aside. He took the initiative to learn to do housework and cook delicious food, which made his parents who were sore feel extremely warm inside.
also has different situations. If you ask the child before feeding him a piece of fruit, it will make people feel how wronged the child has been. You can’t hit me anymore, you can’t scold me, you can’t drink. Looking at the well-armed children, I wish my father could be kinder to me and educate me in a gentler way.
When communicating with friends, she thought that she wanted her child to be ordinary in other aspects, with average grades, so she could stay with her, or that she wanted her child to have top-notch grades. Everyone's opinions surprised Ai Ai.
of course has better grades! What can you do if you stay by your side?
Taking good care of children is a display of good character. Whether your grades are good or not will directly affect your life's future!
I have been taking online classes for so long. If I don’t study hard, I will be considered a poor student when school starts! That won't work!
Peng Kaiping, a psychology professor at Tsinghua University , believes that what children have experienced in recent years has hurt them more than we imagined. Because of the epidemic, they have no feeling for life and don’t know what to do with their lives.
In school, you not only learn cultural knowledge, but also get along with classmates and improve your ability to get along with others. Parents only see the ups and downs of their children's grades after taking online classes. Teachers only see in front of the camera whether the students are listening, but no one understands their children's inner feelings.
How can parents guide their children's inner feelings so that their children's inner emotions can be correctly guided? What about reducing children’s inner pain and worries?
First, give your children a chance to express their feelings.
Parents are busy at work and have no time to spend with their children. Children can feel when they feel uncomfortable or have mood swings. When the atmosphere at home is good, give your children time to fully express their thoughts and let them talk out their inner thoughts and uneasy emotions.
Talking can release children’s inner pressure, and when they are accepted by their parents, they can learn to understand and respect other people’s emotions and moods. In the process of growing up, only by mastering the password of emotions can they become a real winner in life.
Secondly, guide children to find their growth goals and sense of value.
The ancients said that learning is more important than determination. Guide children to find their ideals in life, realize their own sense of value in life, and feel the meaning of life. Only then can they use a correct outlook on life to guide themselves to become better people.
Finally, let the children tell them what help they need from their parents.
In the book "High Performance Coaching", he introduces a method to help children grow.Let the children talk about their goals, what they plan to do to achieve them, and what specific help they need from their parents.
puts the control of growth in the hands of the children themselves. When the children realize that they want to make progress, no one can stop them. When children take the initiative to grow up and tell them what kind of help they need, parents' behavior will be respected by their children.
After returning to normal studies, children who can truly stabilize their emotions, find their goals in life, and know what to do in their hearts can make themselves better children, and they will naturally make greater progress and achieve better results!
Children who can patiently take care of their parents when they are sick will take their parents with them even if they go to work in other places and be a filial and progressive child!
Do you want your children to be ordinary? Or top-notch?
Which behaviors of your children have moved you?
