01
Recently, I bought more than 10 books for myself. When the express delivery arrived, I always asked my daughter to help open it.
When my daughter saw the books on the table, she hugged me excitedly and said: Who has such a good mother? A mother who loves learning so much?
Then she gave me a thumbs up and gave me crazy likes.
Of course, I was not polite to show off in front of my daughter. I pointed to the newly bought book and said: Look, I also specially bought a copy of "Parents' Awakening". I will continue to study hard and be a good mother.
02
Before going to bed at night, I pretended to be reading a book.
My daughter lay next to me, and I told her the contents of the book.
I recently read "Four Lessons from the World", and one of the chapters mentioned that some parents did good deeds. Although these parents did not receive blessings at the moment, their descendants received great blessings and lived a very good life.
I said to my daughter, so dad and I should do good deeds, which will be good for your future life.
If you grow up and have children, and you want your children to live well, then you should also do good deeds.
My daughter was conquered by my remarks and gave me a thumbs up and gave me crazy likes.
03
Actually, I am a careful mother.
For example, when the books I bought arrived, I asked my daughter to unpack them so that she could see which books I bought.
For example, I will put a few books on the bedside, and I will read in front of my children before going to bed.
Maybe she doesn't pay attention once or twice, but as time goes by, she will pay attention to what book I am reading, and occasionally I will tell her the content.
For example, I sometimes read a book in front of her desk. After reading, I deliberately put the books and notes on her desk and asked her to clean them up for me.
These are my little tricks.
I not only want to read books, I also want to let my children know that I am reading and studying.
04
I didn’t know the word "growth" until I was 36 years old. Then I started learning to grow, and now I am determined to be a mother who grows up for life.
I used to be a little proud. After I had my child, I never bought a parenting book. I relied on my own feelings and occasionally read one or two parenting articles on public accounts, and I managed to raise my daughter pretty well.
My daughter is now 12 years old. We don’t have the rebellious period of two or three years old or the worries of having to focus on homework in elementary school.
My daughter praises me every day as the best mother in the world.
Sometimes I ask her questions. Others say that children have a rebellious period. What should I do if you are rebellious?
My daughter comforted me and said, no, this also depends on the family, and there will be no rebellious period in our family.
I said to my daughter, why are you so good?
The daughter said that it depends on the mother. If it were another mother, she might not be so good.
Oh my, my daughter really knows how to talk.
05
In fact, the child is not stupid. Is the mother really reading a book or is she pretending to read a book? Are you really learning or pretending to be learning? Children can feel it.
We are an awakened generation of parents. Nowadays, many mothers are also studying and are determined to become lifelong learning parents.
This is a long and difficult road.
These four words of lifelong learning are easy to say, but if we really want to do it, we need to pay a lot of sweat and tears and really take action.
We only have so much time in total, which is either spent on our children or on ourselves.
When we devote our limited time to reading and studying, we don’t have to keep an eye on our children all the time. This will actually help our children learn, because we ourselves have become their role models.
