November 30, 2022 is a good day for my son to be born. I, a mother born in the 1990s, will have both children and a daughter from now on, and will have no regrets in life.
When I was pushed out of the delivery room in a wheelchair and returned to the ward, I couldn't wait to ask my husband to bring me my mobile phone, so I could share my joy through Moments as soon as possible.
As I wished, relatives and friends immediately sent their most sincere blessings, and I forgot the pain of giving birth and immersed myself in everyone's blessings.
My husband and I have always wanted a tiger baby. I started preparing to have a baby at the end of 2021 and took a pre-pregnancy check-up. Later, I had inflammation that required treatment, and it was not cured until the beginning of this year. I originally thought that the tiger baby would be dead, but I accidentally found out that I was pregnant in February. Well, the due date is December, which happens to be the last month of the Year of the Tiger. I was really happy at that time.
My eldest daughter is a daughter. They say that various indicators and physiological reactions are different when a son and a daughter are pregnant. I really agreed with that statement.
Now let me talk about the difference between the two babies:
About pregnancy reactions
When I was pregnant with my daughter, the pregnancy reactions completely disappeared from one and a half months to three months. After disappearing, my appetite was so good that I couldn't help it. Later, the doctor specially told me to control my weight, otherwise I would give birth without even thinking about it. Sure enough, the child's B ultrasound showed that he was eight pounds, and he was born at seven pounds.
When I was pregnant with my son, the pregnancy symptoms lasted from one and a half months to five months before disappearing. After disappearing, my appetite was still bad. Later, the B-ultrasound showed that the fetus was a week smaller! The baby weighed less than six pounds after birth.
Regarding the taste,
is said to be sour and spicy, but this is not the case for me.
When I was pregnant with my daughter, I liked both sour and spicy food, which tasted stronger. Everyone thought she was pregnant with a son.
When I was pregnant with my son, I didn’t like sour food or spicy food. I only liked sweets. I didn’t like cakes and milk tea too much. Therefore, if the blood sugar is on the high side, sugar cannot be added to the rice wine and eggs cooked during confinement. It tastes so bad that I doubt my life.
About fetal heart rate
Some people say that a high fetal heart rate means a girl, and a low fetal heart rate means a boy. For my two babies, this is quite accurate.
When I was pregnant with my daughter, the fetal heart rate almost remained between 150 and 160.
When I was pregnant with my son, the fetal heart rate was between 130 and 140.
About the B-ultrasound sheet
When I was pregnant with my daughter, there was an indicator on the four-dimensional B-ultrasound sheet, which was the fetal abdomen. It said there was no separation of the renal pelvis on the back.
When I was pregnant with my son, the four-dimensional B-ultrasound showed no signs of separation in the single fetal abdomen in both renal pelvis .
compared the four-dimensional B-ultrasound scans of my friend’s daughter when she gave birth, and they also said there was no separation of the renal pelvis.
About the shape of the belly
When I was pregnant with my daughter, my belly was a bit big. She was pregnant very high and it was easy to hold up when I ate. My belly looked pointed but there was a lot of meat in my waist.
When I was pregnant with my son, my belly was small and I was pregnant low. I couldn’t hold it in due to my poor appetite, but I couldn’t hold back my urine when I drank water. I always look for the toilet when I go out. My belly is round but long, and there is no fat on my waist.
About giving birth
When I was pregnant with my daughter, I had a long labor process. I saw redness at 7 o'clock in the morning without any discomfort. After I was admitted to the hospital, labor pains started around 10 o'clock in the evening, and I didn't give birth until 2:30 in the morning. When in pain, there is no stomach pain, only waist pain, and I can't get up from lying down at all.
When I was pregnant with my son, the labor process was rapid. It cannot be ruled out that it was caused by the second pregnancy or that the fetus was smaller than my daughter. The labor pains were unbearable at the beginning and lasted less than two hours until the birth. When in pain, there is pain on the left side of the lower abdomen and low back pain. I don’t want to lie down, I just want to stand and hold on to the wall, and I especially want to move around.
These are all the differences between my two babies, but everyone's body is different and the differences are different. It cannot be generalized.
About mentality
I think whether eating well during pregnancy is secondary, the most important thing is the mentality of pregnant women.
You must maintain a good attitude. No matter what happens, you must face it with a calm mind. Don't be anxious, let alone be anxious. Otherwise, if you become anxious, the baby in your belly will also become anxious. Due to personal physical reasons, some pregnant women may experience fetal cardiac arrest, premature delivery, or other more serious problems when they become angry.
The eldest sister in the same ward as me is 39 years old. When the fetus was 38 weeks old, she suddenly felt out of breath due to an argument with her husband. She immediately went to the hospital and found that the fetal heart rate could no longer be monitored, so she quickly performed a cesarean operation. Although the mother and baby were safe in the end, the eldest sister told me that she experienced a lot of pain like a disabled person. The baby was still in the neonatal emergency room until I was discharged from the hospital.
Finally, I want to say that giving birth is the most painful thing in a woman's life. If you don't have a good partner, don't choose to get married. If your marriage is unstable, don't have children. If you give birth to a child, then please be a qualified mother. No matter you are rich or poor, taking your child with you is the best love for your child.
The eldest sister in the same ward as me is 39 years old. When the fetus was 38 weeks old, she suddenly felt out of breath due to an argument with her husband. She immediately went to the hospital and found that the fetal heart rate could no longer be monitored, so she quickly performed a cesarean operation. Although the mother and baby were safe in the end, the eldest sister told me that she experienced a lot of pain like a disabled person. The baby was still in the neonatal emergency room until I was discharged from the hospital.
Finally, I want to say that giving birth is the most painful thing in a woman's life. If you don't have a good partner, don't choose to get married. If your marriage is unstable, don't have children. If you give birth to a child, then please be a qualified mother. No matter you are rich or poor, taking your child with you is the best love for your child.
