Zhao Hong
Just the way, there was a plate of walnuts on the table that no one had eaten for two or three months, so Zhao Hong brought the plate of walnuts back to the room and started eating.
Mother-in-law saw it and cursed: "Some people only know how to eat alone. If they have something to eat, they hide in their room to eat, and they won't ask others whether they eat."
Hearing her mother-in-law's words, Zhao Hong was very dissatisfied and immediately refuted: "The walnuts are placed on the table outside for two or three months but haven't seen you eat. Now I eat you, you scold me if I eat alone and don't call you to eat together. Don't you just can't stand my food?"
As soon as I finished speaking, Zhao Hong was slapped several times on the face by her husband Chen Ming, who came in from outside the house. Then, Chen Ming slapped Zhao Hong several times on the back.
Chen Ming suddenly slapped Zhao Hong, and when he realized that he was so aggrieved that he shed a lot of tears. How can
not be wronged?
Zhao Hong is pregnant and wants to eat with greed. It is obviously normal for her to see walnuts that no one has eaten for several months. She brought them to her room to eat. There is no problem at all.
But I didn't want to do it, my mother-in-law stopped doing it.
The mother-in-law scolded Zhao Hong for eating alone. Zhao Hong refuted a few words. After seeing this, Chen Ming went forward without asking the reason and went straight to hit Zhao Hong.
Zhao Hong's mother-in-law
You should know that Zhao Hong is a pregnant woman who needs care, and Chen Ming is a big man, so he must be very strong, and the few strokes he beats must also be very painful.
But compared to physical pain, Zhao Hong's heart will hurt even more! She just ate a few walnuts and just told her mother-in-law a few words, but her husband was beaten indiscriminately. If outsiders know about things like
, they will feel wronged and want to cry just by thinking about it, let alone Zhao Hong, the person involved, is so sad!
Zhao Hong finished crying and packed up her own things to go back to her parents' home. She couldn't live such a life.
Seeing Zhao Hong go back to her parents' home, Chen Ming and his mother didn't stop him. They looked at Zhao Hong with a cold face, and then continued to do their own things, as if Zhao Hong was in the air.
Everyone says that family scandals should not be made public, and Zhao Hong's mother-in-law seems to not understand this truth.
Just as Zhao Hong left, her mother-in-law told people in the village about Zhao Hong’s gossip, saying that Zhao Hong is not good at being a human being but only knows how to eat alone, saying that her son Chen Ming is very filial and good at protecting her mother, and saying that Zhao Hong deserves to be beaten.
Soon, the gossip that my mother-in-law said was so irritating to the ears of Zhao Hongniang's family, and her family was very angry.
Moreover, it has been more than 20 days since Zhao Hong returned to her parents' home, but Chen Ming and his mother did not call him a single call, nor did they apologize to Zhao Hong.
not only does not apologize for doing something wrong, but also distorts the black and white to spread the matter. This is simply too much.
Zhao Hong is also her parents' treasure, so she can't bear to be bullied by her in-laws so much, so she simply persuaded Zhao Hong to abolish the child and divorce, and then start over.
Zhao Hong agreed and called Chen Ming to inform him.
When he heard that Zhao Hong not only wanted to abort the child, but also divorce, Chen Ming was anxious and hurried to Zhao's house with his mother. As soon as he entered the door, he knelt in front of Zhao Hong and cried while admitting his mistakes and apologizing. His mother-in-law also promised that he would not interfere in the lives of Zhao Hong and Chen Ming in the future.
In order to coax Zhao Hong, Chen Ming also called a mediator to come to the Zhao family together, hoping to mediate the conflict and save the precarious marriage.
So, can Chen Ming get what he wants?
In fact, it is not the first time Zhao Hong and her mother-in-law have quarreled. It is not the first time Zhao Hong has returned to her parents' home after the quarrel. It is not the first time Chen Ming has to face her mother-in-law every time she has conflicts with her mother-in-law.
The resentment between Zhao Hong and her mother-in-law has been a long time ago. This "walnut incident" is just a fuse, which has brought the conflict between Zhao Hong and her mother-in-law to the pinnacle.
Zhao Hong said: "After three years of marriage, as long as there are conflicts, he (Chen Ming) will only help his mother; as long as he has something to do with his mother, I will definitely quarrel with him; as long as his mother gets involved, he will definitely face his mother."
Hearing Zhao Hong say this, Chen Ming said aggrievedly: "I told Zhao Hong that my mother is just like that. Don't worry about her. Just be able to live up to your face. I also told my mother, but they are looking for trouble every day and no one listens to my advice. "
Chen Ming's words meant that he persuaded Zhao Hong and his mother not to quarrel, but unfortunately it was not effective.
Chen Ming
talked about Chen Ming beating Zhao Hong.
Chen Ming quickly defended himself. He said that he beat Zhao Hong not because she ate a few walnuts, but because Chen Hong did not help his mother wash clothes.
He said that once his mother went to the field to apply pesticides to crops. After the injection, the pesticide smell was stuck on her clothes, so she had to wash them quickly.
After returning home, Just as soon as he saw Zhao Hong washing clothes, his mother gave Zhao Hong the changed clothes and asked Zhao Hong to help him wash them, but Zhao Hong was unwilling. He said he couldn't wash so many clothes, so he turned around and carried a bunch of bed sheets and washed them. Anyway, he was unwilling to help his mother wash them.
Mother was very sad and complained to him.
He felt that his mother had been working for a day and was already very tired. Zhao Hong should help him wash clothes, but Zhao Hong was unwilling to wash them. He felt that Zhao Hong didn't know how to be filial to her mother, and she was so angry that she was holding her breath at that time.
This time, he heard Zhao Hong shouting as soon as he entered the door. The murderous mother suddenly thought of Zhao Hong's unwillingness to help her mother wash clothes. She concluded that her mother must have been bullied by Zhao Hong, and she got angry and then hit Zhao Hong.
What Chen Ming said made Zhao Hong even more aggrieved.
She said that her mother-in-law always did this, often looking for trouble, and after finding the matter, she went to complain to Chen Ming.
Drinking clothes was not as Chen Ming said. That day, after taking pesticides, her mother-in-law went home to change clothes, and piled up the dirty clothes. She asked her mother-in-law to wash them. Otherwise, the taste would be too strong, but if the mother-in-law didn't wash it, Zhao Hong asked her mother-in-law to watch the child and she went to wash it.
Mother-in-law agreed.
Since, before she could help her mother-in-law wash clothes, the mother-in-law regretted it again. She said she wanted to wash it by herself.
In this regard, Zhao Hong had no choice but to follow her mother-in-law, but she didn't expect that the mother-in-law had washed her clothes, but she ran to complain to Chen Ming with jealousy.
Zhao Hong said: "Mother-in-law is an elder. I know that as a junior, I should not care about her, but if the elders do something wrong, should I listen too? "
When I first got married, Zhao Hong was always tolerant and compromised, but the compromise did not bring her sincere confrontation, but instead made her even more excessive. She had to complain to Chen Ming for every little thing.
Moreover, the mother-in-law is very strong. She has to interfere in any big and small matters, and she has to listen to her arrangements. During the holidays, she goes back to her parents' home to visit and give her some Xidu must be allowed to give it to her mother-in-law.
After getting married, she returned to her parents' home during the Chinese New Year in the first year. Her mother-in-law only asked her to carry 5 kilograms of eggs. The next year, she returned to her parents' home during the Chinese New Year. Zhao Hong bought two kilograms of meat and two bottles of wine. As a result, her mother-in-law was unhappy when she saw it and kept saying that two kilograms of meat was enough. What should I buy wine so expensive?
At this moment, Zhao Hong realized that she was really an outsider in her husband's house and could not even make the decision to give something to her parents' home.
Zhao Hong and Chen Ming and his wife went back to their parents' home
The third year went back to their parents' home during the Chinese New Year, Zhao Hong asked Chen Ming to give his father two hundred yuan. After giving it, Chen Ming told Zhao Hong over and over again, telling Zhao Hong not to tell his mother, otherwise the mother-in-law would be angry.
This made Zhao Hong particularly upset. No matter when, Chen Ming was thinking about his mother and always regarded his mother's words as an imperial edict. He has no opinion at all, and does not take her wife as a heart at all.
In addition to this, there is another thing that makes Zhao Hong feel uneasy.
Because his father is in poor health, he can't do much farm work. When Zhao Hong agreed to marry Chen Ming, Chen Ming promised that after getting married, as long as he has free time, he will definitely come to help his father-in-law do farm work.
However, everything changed after marriage.
The crops at home need to be used quickly. Zhao's father was too busy, and he couldn't be too tired due to his health, so he asked Chen Ming to help, and Chen Ming agreed immediately.
but didn't expect that when he went out the next day, he was called out by his mother-in-law. His mother-in-law told Chen Ming not to go, and if he went, he would gossip the villagers.
As a result, Chen Ming did not go after hearing what his mother-in-law said.
Chen Ming really listens to his mother in everything. He is always the mother's good baby. He will never do it. He is more obedient than the children in kindergarten.
, Zhao Hong minds all things, but her mother-in-law disagreed, and said with a smile on her face, "What she (Zhao Hong) said is not a big deal, it is just a trivial matter."
Zhao Hong's mother-in-law refuted
, perhaps, in the eyes of her mother-in-law, Zhao Hong's dissatisfaction and complaints are completely trivial matters that are not worth mentioning, and Zhao Hong is too petty.
The mother-in-law also had a lot of resentment towards Zhao Hong, the daughter-in-law. She said that there is no way to quarrel in life, but every time she quarreled, Zhao Hong would call for support from her mother's family. As soon as those people entered the door, they questioned Chen Ming, as if Chen Ming had done something too much.
or even, if you can't reach an agreement, the Zhao family will take Zhao Hong back. If you take it back, you won't come back by yourself. Every time, Chen Ming has to come to the door and coax him left and right, and say all the good things, so that Zhao Hong will come back.
The mother-in-law said that it is normal for couples to have conflicts, but it is not possible to run to their parents' home at any time. Marrying a wife means living home, rather than always running outside.
It can be seen that my mother-in-law always calls Zhao Hong for her family to support her, and always runs back to her family to have deep resentment .
In response to this, Zhao Hong said: "I don't go back to my parents' home after being wronged. Where should I go? She (mother-in-law) looked at me everywhere. Even when I gave birth to my first daughter, she didn't come to see me well. She even made things difficult for me during confinement."
So it's! There is a local custom in their home where a newborn is born, and grandma wants to make a small quilt for her grandchildren, which is a blessing to the children.
Zhao Hong's mother-in-law, after Zhao Hong gave birth to a daughter, took an old quilt and threw it to Zhao Hong, turned around and left. She didn't care about Zhao Hong at all, and didn't even look at her granddaughter.
, even, during Zhao Hong's confinement period, her mother-in-law was not allowed to take care of her.
After the child is born, the mother-in-law does not help take care of the child. No matter how busy it is, Zhao Hong is alone in charge of the child.
When the mother-in-law heard Zhao Hong say that she would not help taking care of the child, she immediately defended: "It's not that I don't help, it's that she (Zhao Hong) doesn't let me hold the child, and I can't say anything to the child."
Zhao Hong's mother-in-law defended
Chen Ming also echoed: "My mother goes to hug the child, but she (Zhao Hong) doesn't let her hug it."
Seeing that her husband protecting her mother-in-law again, Zhao Hong smiled sarcastically, and she said : "She (mother-in-law) is a double-faced person, especially good at acting. She is one in front of me and another in front of her son. As long as her son is at home, she will hurry to carry the child. If her son is not at home, she will ignore the child."
Once, Zhao Hong wanted to go to the bathroom, so she handed the child to her idle mother-in-law and asked her to help take it, but her mother-in-law refused with a cold face. Then she placed the child by the bed. When she came back from the bathroom, the child had already crawled out and was burned by accident.
After the child was burned, he cried in pain. Zhao Hong felt very distressed, while Chen Ming still protected his mother as usual.
The mother-in-law kept looking for trouble, and her husband always protected her mother-in-law. Zhao Hong was wronged again and again, so she completely gave up in this walnut incident, wanting to abolish the child and divorce, and then start over.
Chen Ming and his mother came to Zhao's house to apologize in person, knelt down and begged for forgiveness, crying sincerely, and the promise that one on the left and one on the right promised that he would not be able to do so in the future, Zhao Hong's determination to abolish the child's divorce was shaken.
Chen Ming knelt down and begged Zhao Hong for forgiveness
Seeing this, the mediator made another mediation, and finally convinced Zhao Hong to give up the idea of abolishing the child’s divorce and returned to the Chen family.
In the end, Chen Ming saved his marriage.
There are one thing to two things about beating your wife. The editor doesn’t really believe that Chen Ming can really reform himself in the future and control himself. After all, Chen Ming has a strong mother .
What do you think about Zhao Hong’s choice to forgive Chen Ming and continue to be with Chen Ming?
If you are Zhao Hong? Will you forgive Chen Ming?
In real life, will you forgive a husband who hits you when you are pregnant and protects his mother-in-law unconditionally?
Reference: "The pregnant wife was scolded by her husband for eating a plate of walnuts and decided to divorce after being scolded by her husband in anger"
