Combination of praise and encouragement and criticism and punishment. Everyone knows that encouragement is the main focus and strengthening is positive. But it’s not to be criticized.
Good children are not praised, but educated. Education requires praise, criticism, and even punishment. It is not good if anything goes to extremes.
If you always praise and never criticize, children are prone to three problems.
first, easy to be proud and complacent. Nowadays, most of the children are proud and complacent, and few children can do self-criticism and self-reflection. If something goes wrong, look for the objective reason first, not the own reasons. There are too many young people like this. Some people are not popular after graduation, why? It’s not that he has little knowledge, but that he is too crazy and looks down on his leaders and colleagues. He can’t make it after a while.
The second problem is that you are not suitable for society. In the future, children will always enter society. Who will praise him? Can parents hear praise when they go to work every day? Who is that person who works by saying praise?
The third is low psychological tolerance. Nowadays, children cannot listen to criticism and are very unhappy when criticism is criticized. They lie on the table and pretend to be asleep. If you don’t believe it, go to college to see. Children who have extreme accidents in college are children who have not been criticized frequently since childhood.
So my point is: "Praise and encouragement are the main ones, criticism and punishment are the auxiliary ones." It is difficult for a child to become successful without any criticism, without any setbacks, or even without any grievances.
We parents are particularly afraid of their children being wronged. In fact, this is something that children must go through. Having said that, don’t understand it wrong. It’s wrong to say that the teacher advocates that we criticize children and criticize children every day. I mean, praise more and encourage more, criticism is supplemented, use less, use it with caution, of course, you must not ignore it, grasp a certain degree.
