Having a daughter has always been my dream
My youngest daughter was born in 2018, and it is said that she can’t afford a second child. Today I will calculate how much money she spent in the past four and a half years?
1. Pregnancy examination fee. pregnancy period was performed at 7 weeks, 13 weeks, 18 weeks, 22 weeks, and 27 weeks respectively. The cost of color ultrasound was calculated as 1,500 yuan. Because I was old, I made non-invasive fetal DNA, which cost 1,200 yuan. Adding other sporadic blood tests, registrations, and pregnancy tests, it is counted as 4,000 yuan .
2, production cost . Because the first child was a cesarean section and was also an elderly person, the second child also chose a cesarean section, and the hospitalization fee was 10,000 yuan. This 10,000 yuan per single disease will be reported. The cost of the child’s examination is about 1,000. In this way, the total count is 1,000 yuan .
3. Confinement expenses. didn't hire a nanny didn't hire a nanny didn's 6th confinement period, so I bought a small washing machine to wash clothes for the baby, 500 yuan. I ate very well during the confinement period, with about 15 local ducks, , 100 local eggs, other pork, and some fish. Total calculation of 5,000 yuan !
0 0 confinement period I ate a lot of local duck
4, baby supplies and clothes. baby bed for her brother's money. There are two baby carts, one used by others, and it costs money; when the child is over one year old, he always likes to carry him when he goes out, so he bought a small rattan chair cart for 50 yuan. The baby's clothes and shoes are counted as 2,000 yuan a year! The Chinese New Year is coming soon, she is almost five years old, and she has bought clothes for the Chinese New Year this year, even if 2000×5=10000 yuan .
5, milk powder diapers. has been ed with full breast milk until two years old and three months old. She only bought 4 cans of milk powder after being weaned, so she stopped drinking milk powder. 4 cans of milk powder count 1400. Diapers were used very hard during confinement period, but at that time, many of them were given by relatives and friends, and they were used less after a few months. Diapers were counted as 3,000, which were all Kao stocked in Tmall Supermarket Double 11 and 618, which were relatively cheap. In this way, milk powder diapers total 4400 yuan .
6, Nanny fee. -month and maternity leave, we did not hire a confinement nanny or nanny, but the child's father took two weeks of maternity leave and two weeks of public leave to take care of him. He was deducted several thousand yuan for this, which was not included in the cost. I started to hire a nanny since my child was five and a half months old because I had to go to work. I started to hire my aunt upstairs at my house for 3,000 yuan a month. My child was brought to her at work and she was brought back after get off work. It took me more than eight months to ask for a total of 25,000 yuan. Later, the aunt's daughter-in-law wanted to have a second child, so we had to find an agent to hire a nanny. This nanny is 4,000 yuan a month, and she has brought her 11 months in total. With 13 months’ salary and aunt’s food and clothing, it is calculated to be 53,000 yuan. In this way, the nanny fee is 78,000 .
Asked a nanny to take care of the child
7, the baby's food expenses. babies don’t eat much, but they like to eat snacks, and snacks are very expensive. The average monthly meal cost is 500 yuan. It’s 4 years, which is 24,000 .
8, baby's toys. is 100 per month, and 4 and a half years is 5400 yuan .
9, kindergarten tuition and interest class fees. has been in kindergarten for a total of three semesters so far. 7100+6200+6300=19600 yuan. School of staying in the park: 750+1600+1600=3950 yuan. Interest class: 2800+300=3100 yuan. In this way, a total of 26,500 yuan .
Children fall in love with kindergarten
10, vaccine fees and medical insurance costs. We don’t get much of the vaccines that are self-paid for , so we can count 1,500 yuan . Medical insurance is counted as 1,000 yuan, totaling 2,500 yuan .
11, school district housing. This is the biggest expenditure, and I have always been very confused whether it should be counted on the baby's head. But if I didn’t have a second baby, I would never buy it. 3.06 million + tax agency fee of 100,000 = 3.16 million .In order to equalize the cost of this school district housing, my husband once joked that he would have a third child, but I refused. Although having a second child is my obsession, whoever wants to give birth to the third child will give birth to the third child, I won’t give birth anyway!
12. Money deducted from maternity leave. The money is also quite high. I didn’t have a second baby, so I could go to work. The 5 and a half months bonus plus year-end performance combined with 35,000 .
This way, the deducted money for school district housing and maternity leave is spent in total .16 million . If the first two items are added, 3.355 million!
raising a baby is too expensive
This has only been raising it for 4 and a half years! Moreover, I was poor and didn’t go to early education classes, and rarely went to amusement parks. My mother-in-law came to help me with her for nearly two years later, otherwise the nanny fee would have to be increased by more than 100,000 yuan! It takes more than 20 years to raise a child until she can live independently, and it is less than 1 million yuan.
I am a member of the system, and the impact of having a baby on my economic income is that I was deducted from my maternity leave salary. If you find a job in a private enterprise, the impact will only be greater! Even losing your job! We are a weak second-tier city. I have purchased a house with 4 bedrooms and two living rooms, and 2 children are enough to live in. If it is a first-tier city, giving the child one more room is impossible to complete!
Do you want to have a second child
So after you calculate the account, you will understand why no one is willing to have a second or third child!
In order to equalize the cost of this school district housing, my husband once joked that he would have a third child, but I refused. Although having a second child is my obsession, whoever wants to give birth to the third child will give birth to the third child, I won’t give birth anyway!12. Money deducted from maternity leave. The money is also quite high. I didn’t have a second baby, so I could go to work. The 5 and a half months bonus plus year-end performance combined with 35,000 .
This way, the deducted money for school district housing and maternity leave is spent in total .16 million . If the first two items are added, 3.355 million!
raising a baby is too expensive
This has only been raising it for 4 and a half years! Moreover, I was poor and didn’t go to early education classes, and rarely went to amusement parks. My mother-in-law came to help me with her for nearly two years later, otherwise the nanny fee would have to be increased by more than 100,000 yuan! It takes more than 20 years to raise a child until she can live independently, and it is less than 1 million yuan.
I am a member of the system, and the impact of having a baby on my economic income is that I was deducted from my maternity leave salary. If you find a job in a private enterprise, the impact will only be greater! Even losing your job! We are a weak second-tier city. I have purchased a house with 4 bedrooms and two living rooms, and 2 children are enough to live in. If it is a first-tier city, giving the child one more room is impossible to complete!
Do you want to have a second child
So after you calculate the account, you will understand why no one is willing to have a second or third child!
