Aoxue summarized 20 very useful, and share it for everyone to refer to:
1. You must have the awareness of planning ahead. When you are young, you must work hard and lay a solid foundation. While teaching your children well, save some pension money for yourself, or buy social security!
2. You must have your own house. As the saying goes, "A golden nest is not as good as your own grass nest."◝️
No matter how good other people's home is, it is someone else's, and you can't tolerate it. The home of children is not the home of their parents. Parents are just guests. They must have their own home, even if they are not big!
3. Keep exercising every day. Life lies in exercise. No matter what age, you must take a walk or trot for at least half an hour every day◝️
4. Soak your feet every night. You can use ginger, mugwort leaves, and pepper to remove dampness, remove coldness and promote sleep!
5. Go to bed early and get up early every day. Remember to drink a glass of warm water to keep your stomach and intestines unblocked❗️
6. Keep studying every day and have the spirit of living until you are old and learning until you are old. Don’t be eliminated by society, keep pace with the times, and be an elegant old man!
7. Dress up exquisitely every day. Everyone likes clean and neat people. Don’t think that you don’t dress up when you are old. Make good food and food, and keep the house clean❗️
8. Wash your hands frequently, take a bath and wash your hair. Don’t be dirty all day long, your sloppy look makes people feel uncomfortable to see!
9. Be polite to others, don’t rely on your age, think that you are old, others should respect you. You must know that you respect others, so that others will respect you❗️
10. If you have the ability to take care of yourself, never live with your children. There will be generation gaps and frictions. How can their children teach you to keep silent? Young people have their methods of parenting!
11. Children educate grandchildren, don’t spoil them by your side, this will only become worse the more they spoil❗️
12. Children take the initiative to invite you to take care of their children, try to help. If they don’t need it, don’t take the initiative to come to the door, be self-indulgent, and the farther the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, the better. Distance produces beauty!
13. Eat three meals slowly every day, eat lightly, eat well for breakfast, eat full at noon, and be full at 70 minutes at night. Eat before 8 o'clock in the morning, eat before 12 o'clock in the morning, and eat on time before 6 o'clock in the morning ❗️
14. Every day, body, mind, and spirit, stay happy, face everyone and everything with a smile, don't have a little illness or ache, keep moaning, your children are very busy and annoyed. You have to think about it, it's normal for people who are old, minor illnesses. Think about it, many people around you who are about the same age have already left, and you are still living happily, just be content!
15. Don’t be too demanding when speaking and doing things, treat your children and grandchildren equally and do not distinguish between them.If you have a retirement salary, you can often buy some clothes, shoes, school supplies, and food for your grandchildren.... Your money will also belong to them after you have not used up. It is better to give it to them slowly earlier. They will all like you, but don’t give it to them at once◝️
16. Keep a childlike heart, keep a pure, simple, and innocent!
17. Cultivate a hobby, plant flowers, practice calligraphy, read books, fishing, singing, dancing, writing, etc. You can have a hobby. Only when you have a hobby can your life be more fulfilling and your soul has a support❗️
18. Don’t suppress negative emotions. If you want to cry, cry when you want to laugh, laugh when you want to suppress it, you are prone to illness after being suppressed for a long time. Release your sadness and have time to accommodate happiness in your heart!
19. Have a good rest and don’t be too tired. Only with sufficient rest can you maintain sufficient energy and maintain a happy mood❗️
20. Taking some time every day to calm yourself down is the thinking and sedimentation of the soul. Only by calming down can you discover the beauty of life!
Remember to be with people who are comfortable with each other. Being comfortable with each other is the best social state. Stay away from those who consume and hurt you. It is not worth it❗️
Stay awake, consume rationally, and not be numb, so that you will not fall into the trap of desire!
Keep a smile every day. Smile is powerful and can infect people around you and make life bright and warm❗️
Finally, Aoxue reminds you with a warm day:
Each of us has an old day. Treating the elderly well is to treat yourself in the future❗️
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