When Erbao was still in his mother's belly, Dabao had already promised many people that if they gave birth to a younger brother, they would give it to others, including his aunt, his aunt's colleagues, and doctors and uncles he knew. Of course, adults all regarded it as a joke.
We often joke about him, when he is born, he is the younger brother, and is it for the younger sister (his aunt often calls her sister with us), and he always says yes seriously.
Sure enough, the handsome brother always keeps his word so unfaithful. When his younger brother was born, the promised partners were rejected one by one. In his words, either the younger brother had not grown up or the younger brother had not yet passed the confinement period. In short, in his words, my younger brother is my younger brother, how could he give it to you?
When adults educate their children, although sometimes they will make jokes, sensible children will cooperate with adult jokes. In fact, children have a small scale in their hearts - you can joke with me, and I will cooperate, but in principle, things cannot be changed.
Since Erbao was born, the education of Dabao has also entered a new stage, that is, to exercise his exemplary and exemplary nature. When becoming a big brother, the big brother must be like a big brother, and be a role model for his younger brother at all times and everywhere. It can be called role model education.
Of course, appropriate praise can further inspire Dabao's changes. I think the kindergarten has done a good job in this regard, and it is also indispensable in family education. By praising and praising Dabao, it can enhance his self-confidence, help improve his interest development, and can also promote his initiative in learning and self-care ability in life.
Recently, every time I go home from get off work on weekends, Dabao’s first words are that did I print a maze for him? Indeed, this is also a way to cultivate interest. Since he printed dozens of mazes for him last time, he seemed to have become obsessed with walking the maze. This was also what he took the initiative to ask. Therefore, every time he went home, he would bring him some, watching his crooked threads from the entrance to the exit, all of which were accomplishing the task, and this was also the development of interests and hobbies.
has also begun to cultivate his hands-on ability. Of course, the ones we used when we were young, such as origami airplanes and origami boats, were used to follow the example. Although there were not many types, Dabao could still take the initiative to learn to fold, so the house was full of his stacked planes and ships.
At present, Dabao's education is the most inadequate thing to do is companionship. Due to work, he can only go home on weekends. Sometimes he encounters various inspections. Going home on weekends is a luxury. He is old and young. He is very fortunate to have the support of his parents and parents-in-law. He can still be companionship in daily life. Although it is companionship between generations, it can also make up for the lack of fatherly love. The only thing he can do is to try to take time to accompany him and then call and WeChat to accompany him.
How can I get the two Dharmas in the world and live up to the Tathagata and live up to you?
The education of children is to grow up together, which is the best education!
