I have not had the inspiration to write for many days, my mind is blank, and the headlines I write every day are very simple and have no quality things. Recently, I have not gotten the readers' preferences, so I have read a lot less. Just now, a little inspiration came out, raising one's own children is equivalent to raising oneself again. Maybe this point is just what I think, but I still want to express it.
Why does raising children mean that you can raise yourself again?
First of all, each of us has memories of our childhood and memories of our original family. These memories play a crucial role for us as adults!
The quality of the original family directly affects a person's life. It can more affect a person's personality formation. Influence a person's value orientation.
If your original family parents divorce, then you will definitely not have the courage to get married when you become an adult. Even if you get married, you will definitely feel insecure, and your marriage will even reach the point of divorce.
If your original family lives a happy life, your parents are very loving and harmonious, and you will have a lot of companionship in your childhood, then you will confidently leave your original family and can also build your own happy family.
All good and bad things are actually inherited. The above is a broad range of things that are inherited from families. I just want to confirm that we can raise our souls by raising our children.
How to raise children? How to raise yourself again.
When a newborn is born, when we look at our cute faces, we will think about who we will follow immediately? The mother-in-law on the side said, wow, it looks like his father was when he was a child, his eyes and mouth were simply carved from the same mold, which is the inherited physical characteristic.
There is another kind of genetics that is the focus of this article! feeding method inherited.
When the child is crying, the mother-in-law will definitely say next to you, don’t hug you, you must hug you every day after you hug. When we were young, we were raised by our parents using this crying immunization method .
When my child was born, I did not treat the child as my mother-in-law did. When the child cried, I held it in my arms. The look of quietness in one second was very cute. It was my body that touched the child's body and the child felt that he was in my heart, so he did not cry anymore.
also comforted my inner child. I firmly believe that my mother did not use crying immunization method on me, because the behavior of holding the child in time is definitely a subconscious inheritance of my mother. It did not allow the child to not get the care of his mother when he needed her.
The act of holding the child in time is definitely giving me great warmth and love to my heart, making me feel that my mother loves me and cares about me.
For example, looking at the cute look of the child, I thought that when I was a child, I must have been so cute, so naughty or so well-behaved, and carefully discovered and then experienced life.
For children, they need to have principled love. The views expressed in
are not necessarily excessive pampering of children, but must adhere to principles.
Every stage of the growth of a child, the things they need are different. When we should let go, we must learn to let go. Don’t take care of anything. The time it takes for children to do us is only a few years.
: You can raise yourself while raising your children. In fact, it is also for those who are not so happy in their childhood. You can really experience the feeling of raising yourself when raising your children.
There is a child living in everyone's heart. When we try to comfort and love this child, we are raising ourselves again.
does not require everyone to agree with it, and do not criticize if you don’t like it.
