"The child is out of control and cries endlessly", this is a situation that many parents will encounter, and many times parents will be helpless. Is there really no solution? Actually not.
When the child's emotions are out of control, If parents can use the right method, Then the child's emotions will be comforted, and this out-of-control scene can end.
In order to help parents easily cope with this situation, today we have compiled several practical methods for you, parents in need can learn it!
. Take the child away from the scene
When the child is crying in public, if the parents really can't comfort them, then try to take them away from the scene first, then find a quiet place to communicate with the child, so as to solve the problem;
If the child refuses to communicate and still keeps crying, parents can first let them vent their emotions in this quiet environment, and do not have to worry about disturbing others.
On the contrary, if parents scold their children directly in public, they may not only not soothe them, but may also undermine their self-confidence, and may also affect people around them. Therefore, parents should still take their children away from the scene as much as possible.
. First understand the reason
When parents find that their children are emotional, don’t rush to scold them. First understand why the children have emotions, and then solve the problem correctly, so that the children can calm down.
On the contrary, if parents don’t know anything and start to reason with their children directly, or scold them, the effect will only backfire and make the children cry even more violently. Also, at this time, children actually don’t understand anything, so parents should start with the reasons behind their emotions.
So, no matter what, parents need to understand the reasons behind it first, so that they can better cope with their children's emotions.
3. You can try different tones
When children cry, they are prone to not listen to their parents' words. Some parents will become more angry because of this, and even speak to their children in a very high volume and fierce tone. This may scare the children and make them cry even harder.
So, parents might as well try other tones, such as using a playful tone, or a gentle tone, etc. This may be more attractive to children. They will find it fun, so they are more willing to continue to communicate with parents, and they will naturally stop crying.
In addition, parents can also try to use different volumes, or imitate the voices of other cartoon characters, etc. In short, parents can try more, and there may be unexpected results.
4. Give your children a certain right to choose
Sometimes children cry because they do not have the right to choose and do not want to completely obey the parents' requirements and orders. If this is the case, then parents may as well give their children a certain right to choose and decide. This can not only soothe their children's emotions, but also make them obediently continue to do the next thing.
On the contrary, if the parents just don’t give in, the child will keep crying and the two sides are in a stalemate. Not only will the problem not be solved, but the child will also keep crying. So when allowed, parents can let their children decide some things themselves.
When the child is emotionally out of control, if parents can start from the above aspects, it is easy for parents to comfort their children.
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