"Life is education, society and school, teaching integration " This is the educational thought of Mr. Tao Xingzhi , and it still applies today.
Nowadays, children are becoming more and more precocious, and many parents need to face greater challenges in educating their children.
Many children are affected by factors such as the Internet and develop aversion to learning at a very young age, and a very small number of children are extremely disgusted with learning.
In Shenzhen, Guangdong, a 9-year-old boy was "forced" to go to the construction site to pull steel bars, and the boy was exhausted and cried. The father "abuses" his son so much, but netizens like him one after another.
The father "abuses" his 9-year-old son. The child went to the construction site to pull steel bars and was tired of crying
For people in the north, they have already felt the cold of winter. But for southern cities such as Guangdong, the weather is still hot.
Under the scorching sun, there is a thin figure wearing a yellow safety helmet in a construction site in Shenzhen, Guangdong, and holding a long steel bar in his hand.
This nine-year-old boy kept dragging the steel bars. The steel bar he dragged was higher than his, and it was very laborious to drag it.
wearing half-sleeved arms, their small arms were already red from the sun, and sweat kept rolling down their faces, but he was still dragging them hard, which made people feel distressed.
Next to the figure that the nine-year-old boy was dragging hard, his tall father stood aside and watched without any intention of stepping forward to help.
The father has no sympathy for his son who looks pitiful. He just stood aside and watched his son's every move coldly.
Finally, the little boy was exhausted and could no longer drag the heavy steel bars. For some reason, the little boy sat on the ground and started crying.
Seeing that his son cried, the father stepped forward. Seeing his father coming, his son seemed to see a "life-saving straw". He cried and shouted to his father, "I'm going to study hard."
The father "abuses" his 9-year-old son, but netizens liked it one after another after the incident was posted on the Internet, which attracted the attention and heated discussion of many netizens.
Normally, the father "abuses" his son who is only 9 years old and should be criticized and despised by netizens. However, the father in Shenzhen, Guangdong and "abuses" his son, but netizens liked it.
It turns out that the reason why the nine-year-old child is moving steel bars on the construction site is because the nine-year-old boy is very disgusted with school.
I started to get tired of school at the age of only nine, which made my father feel very troubled. At first, the father also taught his son a big reason and advised him to go to school.
However, the son not only did not listen to his father's persuasion, but instead said tactfully to his father that he was going out to work.
is just nine years old and is actually going out to work. Hearing his son's thoughts, the father was shocked.
After the persuasion was fruitless, in order to allow his son to go to school, the father took his son to the construction site to let his son experience what he called "working" and let him understand the difficulty of life.
Therefore, the father took his son, who was only nine years old, to the construction site to pull the steel bars. After a day and a half, my son finally couldn't hold on anymore and understood the difficulty of working, so he cried and wanted to go back to school.
After the father was unable to persuade his son, he taught his son a lesson, "Practice to produce the truth." Since his son wanted to go to work, the father took him to the construction site directly.
After more than a day of work, my son finally understood the hardships of working and the importance of going to school.
When persuading education was fruitless, the father directly used practical education, and the final result of practical education was also obvious.
As a father, it takes a lot of courage to take his nine-year-old son to the construction site to pull steel bars.Therefore, many netizens praised this father's approach.
Practice the truth and personally experience it better than thousands of words
Nowadays, many families are only children. The love between parents and elders is concentrated in one child, so many children grow up in a doting environment.
This type of child has been "holding in the palm of your hand" by his elders since he was a child and cannot endure any hardship. When I was a child, even if I said a few harsh words, the elders would feel very distressed.
Children have lived in this environment since childhood. When the child grows up, many parents realize that they cannot spoil their children too much.
At this time, parents want to use verbal education to educate their children. Unfortunately, children already have their own ideas, and many great principles cannot be touched.
Many parents are reluctant to play with their children since childhood. Moreover, even if you hit the child, it may not be able to solve the problem.
This makes many parents helpless, and many parents even feel anxious every day and cry.
In fact, parents have forgotten the simplest place - "Practice to produce truth". Parents and children talked about it thousands of times and life was not easy, and they could not resist the children's sufferings of life themselves.
After letting children experience the hardships and fatigue of living life, children will naturally understand how precious the learning opportunities in front of them are.
at the end
Improvement of living standards, many parents want to give the best to their children. Children enjoy the life of having clothes and food since childhood, which makes many children unable to endure hardships.
After a long time, children will take the living environment they have created for them with all their might. Children like
are not only lacking in gratitude, but are often very arrogant. If parents cannot correct their children in time, the consequences will be unimaginable.
What do you think about the father asking his nine-year-old son to go to the construction site to experience moving steel bars? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment section for discussion.
