Everyone knows that it is not good to let the elderly take care of their children, because the concept of the elderly is relatively old, especially the elderly have not been to learn a few days ago. There is a high probability that the children will learn some bad habits, and in severe cases, it will even develop some "naughty children". But sometimes there is really no way, after all, young people are really busy with work now.
This is what Linlin's family is. Linlin's in-laws are authentic and honest farmers. Although they have a good personality, they are really short of culture, so they don't know much about some of the new parenting methods now. In short, there is no problem in to ensure the feeding of children, but it is completely unavailable in education.
However, Linlin and her husband are in the rising period of their career. If they give up their career for their children at this time, they may never have such an opportunity in their life, and their family’s financial conditions may never be able to reach.
In order to give the child a better future, Linlin finally decided to temporarily let her grandmother take her 2-year-old daughter, and she and her husband work hard to develop their careers in the past or two years, strive to "successfully achieve success" while the child is in kindergarten, and then take the child back to take care of herself.
In this way, when the child goes to elementary school to learn cultural knowledge, , he will not be affected by the low level of his in-laws' family.
So Linlin sent her daughter to her mother-in-law's house, and the child's grandmother was very happy to take care of the child. After all, there was a little granddaughter at home, which would instantly add a lot of color.
. Linlin knew that her mother-in-law had limited education, so she did not say much about education, but just asked her mother-in-law to pay close attention to her children's diet and safety issues.
Linlin did not have much hope for the mother-in-law to take care of her children. She just felt that in one or two years, the child would not develop too many bad habits. She could help her child get through it with a little bit.
However, after a while, when Linlin went to see the child, she found that the child was a little different. What is the difference? Linlin couldn't say it, maybe she was more sensible? It seems to be getting a little more talkative.
After a while, when Linlin went to see the child, she obviously felt that the child was very good at speaking and was very focused on doing things. She seemed to have grown up a lot, but in fact, it has not been long since.
Later, Linlin was busy with work, so her father always came to visit her. It was not until the child was about to go to kindergarten that Linlin came to handle some matters related to kindergarten. At this time, Linlin obviously felt that the child had become different.
Linlin obviously found that the child is very smooth and accessible in terms of social expression, and it seems that he is not a two or three-year-old child at all.
Moreover, Children have a very good memory, are very attentive when doing things, and have a strong desire for knowledge . They often ask some questions, which surprised Linlin, why does her child become so excellent?
So Linlin asked her husband how the child’s grandmother usually brought her children, and her husband told Linlin that the child’s grandmother actually had no special way, but she would take her child to play a card game called "Knowledge Energy Card" every day.
And why can this card game make children so excellent? The husband summarized the following points:
) Cultivate children's concentration
Although children are born with a certain concentration, if this concentration is not protected, or if they do not pay attention to the cultivation of concentration the day after tomorrow, the child's concentration may gradually disappear and they cannot concentrate without doing anything.
When playing cards, because the nature of this game is very attractive to children, it can arouse children's interest to the maximum extent and has a greater stickiness to children. The children will gradually focus their attention on playing cards, thereby slowly helping children develop a good habit of focusing on doing things.
) Improve children's expression ability
"Knowledge Energy Card" is different from ordinary playing cards, it has stronger knowledge and reading. And we know that if a child’s expression ability is to improve, then the knowledge base and expression method are indispensable.
When children play "Knowledge Energy Card", they need to constantly ask questions and answer questions, so they exercise their children's expression skills at a high frequency.
And when scanning the knowledge QR code on the card, there are more detailed knowledge points extended audio and graphic materials . When children listen to and read these materials, they will invisibly enhance their reading and comprehension abilities, thereby further strengthening their language expression skills.
) Learn knowledge in learning with entertainment
"Energy Knowledge Card" has a strong educational and entertainment nature. It integrates knowledge and entertainment, thereby arousing children's strong desire to learn.
In fact, children's entertainment is different from adults' entertainment. Children do not think that the content of entertainment is "encyclopedia knowledge", so the energy knowledge card will make children feel the same happiness as other types of entertainment. Even because the energy knowledge card has stronger knowledge, it will greatly stimulate children's curiosity and curiosity, and will also make children feel stronger.
Therefore, children can not only develop better learning habits and learning attitudes through the "Energy Knowledge Card", but also improve children's learning effect and make their knowledge reserves deeper.
It turns out that whether the elderly take care of their children is not about whether they are educated or not, but whether they use appropriate parenting tools. As long as you know how to use parenting tools reasonably, even if the elderly have no culture, they can cultivate their children into small encyclopedias.
at the end
Children's education is a time-consuming opportunity. There is indeed a certain "risk" to let the elderly take care of their children. Therefore, if we want to avoid this risk, we can appropriately instruct the elderly to give some parenting methods, such as taking their children to play "Energy Knowledge Card", which will greatly make up for the shortcomings in the elderly's cultural aspects.
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