When the child of the genealogy is bullied, does not know how to react to protect himself. Some children are even more unaware of what bullying is and do not realize that they are bullied. Due to the communication barrier, will not complain to parents .
Make children and peers get along well with each other is what every mother expects. However, there are not so many wishes in the world that come true, and they often go against their wishes. There are always times when children are bullied outside. When children are bullied, how should we, as parents, deal with the issue of "children being bullied"?
Family training diary
Yangyang sat on the chair and ate potato chips. A boy older than him rushed over and snatched the potato chips from Yangyang's hand. When he left, Yangyang pushed him, while Yangyang was still eating the potato chips in his hand as if nothing had happened. He didn't realize that he was bullied. His mother hugged Yangyang in her arms with heartache.
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For ordinary children, they have a sense of property rights at around 3 years old and know "what is mine" I can't give it to you. Children with genealogical disorders do not have a sense of property rights due to developmental disorders. They do not know what they are. They do not know how to protect their rights and interests if they are robbed by others.
Children's education expert Sun Ruixue once said that the sensitive period of self-awareness is the earliest mapping of a child's future personality construction, because what kind of person a child will become in the future and whether his future heart is strong all come from the sensitive period of self-awareness.
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1. Help children establish correct property rights awareness
. Cultivate children's "property awareness". First of all, parents should let their children know who the ownership of the items belongs to, such as which toys and daily necessities belong to him, which belong to his, which belong to the father, and which belong to the mother. Then, he will continue to carry out intensive training in his life to gradually form a sense of ownership of items.
2. Learn to say "no"
On the road of growth, children need to learn how to reject others, and don’t just meet other people’s requirements. They should learn to reject things they are unwilling to do or share. Although sharing is a virtue of Chinese tradition, the prerequisite for sharing is based on whether the child is willing. Parents should instill in them the concept that "it doesn't matter if they are willing to give their own things to others, and it doesn't matter if they are unwilling to give them."
3, Know how to seek help
When children are bullied, they are often threatened by others and say: Don’t tell the teacher, “Don’t tell your parents” or you will be bullied next time. Children are afraid to tell their parents that they are bullied by other children. Over time, they will become the targets of being bullied. Over time, their personalities will become timid, self-esteem, and even cause serious mental illness (depression), which will lead to tragedy.
So, Whether it is an ordinary child or a genealogical child, when they are bullied, parents should let them express it boldly, or seek help , for example, looking for a teacher at school, telling their parents home, etc. Let them know how to protect themselves. Dad insists on sharing family intervention tips for everyone. Please give me a thumbs up after reading the article! Follow Dad in the competition and teach you how to train your family!
