Text: Dujuan
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There is a saying that it takes three years to become better, but it takes only three seconds to become worse.
Yes, if a person's concepts and temperament change, it is just a matter of one thought.
My friend Fangfang has a son. When he was in the sixth grade, he was still a warm man who could help her wash vegetables and sweep the floor at home and take good care of his younger brother. He is a child whom he loves.
And it’s such a warm man. On Saturday night, when he was playing with his phone, the second brother disturbed him and spoke ill of him, regardless of the love, just kicked.
The second child cried like a pig on the spot. When his father saw him, flames suddenly ran away.
"He is your brother, not your enemy. Remember to play games all day long, remember to fight and kill, what can you do to grow up like this?" When the father said this with anger, most children would put down their phones when they knew that their father was popular. Who knew that they didn't exist or were farting.
When my father saw him motionless and his eyes were not blinking, when his father became angry, he walked over and snatched his phone, and threw it to the ground.
At this time, the son was like an unconscious tiger, jumping up from the bed, and then choosing the injured part of his father to attack violently.
Suddenly, when the father fell to the ground, Fangfang yelled at her son when she saw this and tried to stop him.
Because of her son's fierce attack, Fangfang's husband went to the hospital to shoot a movie yesterday, and Fangfang woke him up in time, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.
Come back from school in the afternoon, and after dinner, Fangfang said a lot of serious words to her son.
"Son, our family is six, and grandparents are old and grandma, and they all need to be taken care of. Now your father is the only one to support the family. Think about how much pressure he is?"
Her son is silent, and Fangfang continued, "If your father has something, I think you will still have books and have good days now."
"Who told him to throw my phone, and he will call me after calling, and he will not read without books. What is a good life? I don't think the days are better now?"
heard this tone, and he didn't feel any guilt or regret for his beating his father. If a child like
continues to grow up in this state, it will be like an irregular time bomb, and he will cause trouble one day.
Why is this child like this? According to Fangfang's recollection, after graduating from the sixth grade, her husband was selling fruits outside, and she built a store with Xingsheng Youxuan and Duoduo Cooking, so she naturally had to stay at the rented house every day.
The parents are not around, and grandparents can’t help, so they play with the worst child in the village every day. How bad was that worst child? I heard that there was a person with a brain problem in their village. As a result, the worst child urinated on one of the children's heads, letting the urine slide from the head to the face, and then on his body and feet, and letting a fool who he thought was a happy thing to smell his urine.
Make yourself happy and childish, and based on the pain of others, it can be said to be a distortion of human nature.
Fangfang's son stays with such a child all day long, playing games without making trouble. Games are the same kind of fighting and killing. After a summer vacation, his temperament has changed drastically since then.
I remember there is another saying that goes, learn good people from good people, learn to dance with witch . It can be seen that when a child’s concept of right and wrong is not very clear and his mind is not mature, it is crucial to interact with what kind of person he interacts with.
Parents are the children's first teacher and their guardian. It is their responsibility to become like this.
Yes, it is very important for parents to make money, but who do they work hard to make money, not for their children.
Therefore, parents should reflect on themselves when the alarm bell rings.
Whether to push another hand in violence and scolding, push the child into the abyss, or use warmth and love to pull the child into the sun, it all depends on the parents' thoughts.
One thought becomes a demon, one thought becomes a Buddha, think carefully.
