Children in the city have no childhood, and children in the country have no future.
I once thought this was the case. I never thought about this issue in depth until I found out that my parents have become a vassal of my children. I couldn't help but feel a little moved.
The children in the city are too curly, so they are versatile, and they can sing, dance and draw pictures. They are skilled and have a foundation. They are different from the big-headed dolls in rural children. They also teach musical instruments in music classes, and they also play basketball in physical education classes. Is
fun? Fun, happy? happy. Unfortunately, these things need to be practiced. I won’t talk about my learning. My writing is like a chicken foot. I have to practice it. I have to practice it. I have to check in. I can’t cultivate other hobbies. I have to give it away. Chinese young parents have no hobbies and specialties, but are working hard to cultivate their children’s specialties.
There are also many places to go out for fun, including skiing, camping, water parks, naughty castles, summer camps, and clubs, which are full of high-end feel.
It can be said that all children in the city are good, but they are full of pressure, and both parents and children are tense. When the child grows up, he still gets half of the diversion to vocational education. Even if he graduates from college, he is basically ordinary.
basic work can be done? No, I have worked hard to practice piano for so many years, four extracurricular classes a week, and parents accompany me to study until late at night every day, just to do the same thing as the mud legs in the countryside? This is impossible. I want to be more glamorous, I want to be more decent, I am a prince and a princess at home, and I can't stand you being so angry!
Where are the children in the countryside? The tanned ones are covered with bags bitten by insects from unknown grass. They are shy when they see adults, and fight when they see children. They run from the beginning of the village to the end of the village all day long. What is the homework of
? If you don’t know how to copy it, you don’t need to copy it, so you won’t do it. How to do it if you can’t do it, right? Children in the countryside also like to draw, but over the years, the dolls they draw have not changed much. I also like singing, of course I can only follow a few divine songs with Douyin. When you see an instrument, you will be surprised to say what this is. When you see a foot-pedal trash can, you will break it with your hands without thinking it is dirty. Compared with
, they don’t have too many things, but they can play with it unrestrainedly. The pressure cannot be felt on them, because the teacher is almost the same, and parents either don’t understand it or stay away from it and don’t care. Just eat, wear, and grow up safely. Aren’t people going through this in their lives?
The future is hard to say. I am not a judge and I am not qualified to be this judge. I just have a few thoughts.
1. Only a small number of all children can stand out. No matter how much training you have received in the city or the countryside, you will be ordinary people when you grow up. In terms of social status and income level, you are roughly a class.
2. If a child is regarded as a big stage before the age of 20, then this period is not short. People often say that life is not that long. Should we suffer for 20 years for decades of uncertainty about whether we can be happy? Worth thinking about.
3. Will the entire society be ruined? It's impossible, because there's always someone who can do it.
4. Although our country's social system is different from that of foreign countries, the development trajectory brought by social progress and abundant materials is actually traceable. In the future, more and more people will live and work in peace and contentment, and the status and unemployment of ordinary positions will gradually be balanced, leaving a road for the society to keep a clear path, so that every ordinary person who lives seriously can live a good life.
is no longer available, keep a normal state, learn moderately, respect hobbies, let go of children and yourself.
