What if you are the mother who whispered to remind this child?
In the headline video, a woman was seen a loud argument with a man in a restaurant because the man reminded the woman that her child stepped onto the dining plate.
Actually I was at the scene at that time. I saw the whole process of the matter.
To be honest, it was indeed this man who handled the problem incorrectly.
The child is ignorant, and his mother doesn't see him even when he stepped on the dining plate. The man stood on the commanding heights of morality and told the mother loudly, and also taught him how to do it. While the mother apologized and criticized the child, the man still kept accusing the mother of inaction and lack of discipline, which led to the mother's emotional rebound.
Some of us always like to put ourselves in the moral commanding heights when doing anything, and then condescendingly and constantly teach others a lesson, which leads to various disputes, brings ourselves into unnecessary trouble, and affects the mood of more people and causes trouble to others.
If this man gently stops the child and whispers to remind the mother to pay attention to the safety of the child, will the effect be much better?
Generally speaking, today, in public places, people like to blame others from the moral high ground. Most of the people above the age of the year are basically aware of the principle that paying attention to methods and methods in everything can achieve results.
smiled and whispered in a kind manner, saying that this is the most qualities that we contemporary people should possess.
