In daily life, many parents will find that their children are slow to do things and delay . Even if they have time constraints on their daily routine, their children will have no sense of urgency at all. In fact, this kind of procrastination and procrastination behavioral habits in children are clearly related to their lack of time concepts in .
Children with poor time concepts cannot clearly perceive the passage of time. They are bound by the time period of . often selectively ignore .
In fact, the children's concept of time is not innate . During their acquired growth process, their understanding of the concept of time will gradually be clear. Among them, if parents can master the correct way to cultivate children's time concepts , then the children's habit of delaying and procrastinating will be changed naturally, and this is more effective than constantly urging and nagging .
Min's daughter is very slow and she will delay everything she does. Take the meal as an example. My daughter held the steamed bun in one hand and slowly grabbed the steamed buns with the other hand. chewed it slowly throughout the whole process without panic .
Min Min, who was waiting aside, looked like was indifferent to . held a clock in his hand to show his daughter . Min Min hopes that the time on the dial can awaken the child's movement power .
and when school is over, and other students are running out of the school gate, while Min Min's daughter slowly walks behind the team . From time to time, will stop and look up at the sky . Standing at the school gate, waiting anxiously for Min Min, really didn't know what to say.
In fact, there are many children who are slow to move in life. If parents follow the questions, they will find that most of these children have the common characteristics of lacking the concept of time .
When faced with such a situation, parents' supervision will be regarded as a warning. has no concept of time to drive children "slow but not knowing" .
Poor time concepts have an impact on children's growth
Poor time concepts make children lack a sense of urgency in their actions, which can easily lead to them forming the bad habit of dragging and procrastinating . Especially for children of lower age groups, a weak sense of time can easily lead to lazy and passive negative personality traits .
Lack of time concept will also affect children's efficiency. Especially after their children enter school, they have to undertake a certain amount of homework every day.
If children lack the concept of time, then they will have to and spend longer to complete the learning task, which will easily lead them to fall into the learning misunderstanding of "fatigue tactics" , and finally has a "half result with twice the effort" .
Lack of time concepts and will also affect children's social development. In the process of getting along with their peers, it is difficult for children who are often late and dragged their collective backwards to become popular among peers.
Moreover, children who are often unpunctual may also be treated differently by their peers by , and they will also be relatively difficult to deal with interpersonal relationships.
How to cultivate children’s concept of time? Parents can do this
Some parents will use criticism to deal with their children's behavioral manifestations of lack of time. Parents hope that their children can correct their behavior in criticism and accusation .
But in fact, parents' excessive responsibilities and criticism will only increase the inner pressure of children , which makes them become even more likely to be in negative comments lack of initiative . Children who cannot have confidence in self-action management can only be led by the missing concept of time .
. Teach children to understand time
Time is actually an abstract concept that cannot see or touch . Therefore, for some younger children, their understanding of is very shallow .
In their eyes, the difference between one hour and ten minutes is difficult to accurately identify.Therefore, in this case, instead of focusing on reporting time and urging , parents should pay more attention to and teach their children how to understand .
. Make a time plan
time plan , which has certain binding force for children's behavior . Parents can use the constraints of the time plan to let their children understand the preciousness of time.
When formulating a time schedule, parents can first focus on some small things , so that their children can feel the changes in time in in a short time . As children grow older, parents can appropriately enrich the content of the plan so that children can feel the meaning and value of a little longer.
. Appropriate punishment
If parents are reluctant to let their children see the disadvantages brought by , then they are likely to ignore the importance of time.
Therefore, it is necessary for parents to not to make themselves dependent on for their children, and appropriately let them taste the bitterness of not following the rules of time , so that they can further strengthen the children's awareness of making full use of time.
Conclusion:
The lack of time concept is not uncommon for children. Instead of enduring passively, parents should take the initiative to help their children find the right way to improve this situation. Cultivate children's correct concept of time and give full play to their autonomy, so that it will be easier for children to get rid of the troubles of being procrastinated and procrastinated.
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