Recently, I have come into contact with many mothers who are taking care of their children at home.
Their words to me are very unified: I haven’t been to work for a long time, and I become more homeless and timid.
Some people say that they have become a very qualified social terror now.
I understand very well.
This is due to the fact that there are too many things that are repeated in life and too few things that need to be challenged and learned.
I haven't been exposed to anything new for too long, and people always feel that they have no sense of control and value.
Moms ask me, is there any way?
has nothing to do, there are only 2 words: exchange.
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The meaning of living, philosophy, art, and science, all give different interpretation paths.
Psychologists say that the meaning of living lies in: relationships.
So what is the most important thing in the relationship? It is exchange.
If you want a good mental state, you need to constantly exchange.
You can’t stay at home, you have to go out.
As long as you have an exchange with someone, relationships and links will occur.
When you have links with people, there will be much less panic and anxiety.
The exchange of matter and matter is called transaction.
The exchange of thoughts and thoughts is called communication.
In short, there are back and forth. In this process, you are you, and you are not you.
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No matter what relationship you have with, as long as you remember and exchange the word, you won’t mess it up.
The child said, Mom, I want to eat ice cream.
Is your answer: If you can’t eat, your stomach will hurt, and then you will get sick and go to the hospital...
What does this mean?
This is you shouldn't make a request. Your request will cause me trouble and annoy me, so I ruthlessly reject you.
Can children accept it?
can't, either continue to moji, or secretly sulk, unhappy.
After a long time, the child dares not make any requests to others because he always feels that he will be ruthlessly rejected.
So what if it is changed to a exchange perspective?
The child said: Mom, I want to eat ice cream.
Your answer is: Yes, but you need to do something for me... Then how about we eat three bites of ice cream?
This not only cultivates children's knowledge: I want, I can speak as long as I have the ability to exchange.
On the other hand, if you do not reject him bluntly, he will not sulk.
Three-bit ice cream, it won’t be any better. The worst thing is that one ice cream can be eaten in five times.
Customer said that your product is very good. If you can get a 20% discount, I will place an order immediately.
What is your answer? Sorry, we all have official pricing and never discounts.
What does this mean? Our products are so good that we can choose customers, but if you like to buy them, you won’t buy them.
How do you answer if you use the exchange angle?
can be discounted, my dear customer! As long as your order volume exceeds 300 million, I will apply to the head office immediately to see how you can get more discounts.
See, I didn’t reject you. However, if you want this discount, you must use a large amount of orders to fight for it.
If the customer only wants to order a product worth 3,000 yuan... would you guess he would still be angry with you and think your reply was too stiff?
So, don't refuse, don't deny.
Everything is exchanged.
has no relationship that cannot be resolved.
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We use what we already have in our hands to exchange for what we don’t have throughout our lives.
We are young and use time to exchange money.
We are old and exchange money for time.
Life is an exchange after another.
What is: the flow of water is not corrupt, the household hub is not sluggish
Business people know that many times, as long as the project is good, even if it is not profitable, as long as the transaction can be completed, it must go through the transaction process. Why? Because the company paid the rent anyway and the building was rented. After one process, you can also practice soldiers and improve your experience. As long as the money passes through the account, there will be capital flow, industrial chain, and market share.
If you say this, you will not do it, and in the end you will have to go bankrupt.
The same is true for your thoughts. You are sophisticated, you are noble, look down on this or that, and eventually become a lonely man, self-confidence, and become an old stubborn, an annoying person.
When you go to a lot of communication, a lot of brainstorm , constantly looking at the same thing from the perspective of various people, your selectivity and flexibility will be greatly enhanced. You will not be easily depressed or be knocked down. You will become multiple mes, and no one can make you suffer.
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The biggest problem for the mother group is to stay at home and only deal with one person.
This person is still in the company during the day and has communicated with countless people and has experienced new experiences.
If you stick to this person, he can't give you much feedback, and there will be no exchange.
He ignores you and your whole world will be gone.
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