What's wrong with this class of children? Is it too difficult for them to teach their homework, or is it too difficult for parents to take care of this class of children? When did you tutor your child’s homework and his life was in danger? But it has become a social phenomenon. Teach children's homework until they are in tears, until they are in tears, and when they are in a state of emotion, and when they are in a state of mood collapse.
Why?
may be the importance we attach to our children. Most families are only children, and there is only one treasure (Zong) that is basically the main focus of children, whether it is material or spiritual. Parents, grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents all revolve around such a child. The most common idea is that if other children have them, our children must not be missing. Today's living conditions are basically free of problems for every family to meet the needs of a child. The center is the child, so the attention to the child will naturally be more, so homework has become a problem. Teaching children to do their homework well has become a necessary job for adults.
may be affected by the social environment. For example, reducing the burden on education is a good thing, but to a certain extent, it has caused young children to have only fun in their hearts; for example, the pain points of school teachers are not in charge, nor are they in charge, and it is a dilemma; for example, the reform of education and teaching, the strokes and pronunciation of certain Chinese characters are slightly different from what we learn.
But none of this is the essential reason. The most essential reason for
is that we are using adult thinking to demand children. Why is angry? Because children can't learn, they have not reached the level that we adults want to achieve. In other words, we didn't teach it clearly, we didn't teach it well. Rather than saying that children are stupid, it is better to say that we didn’t teach them well. We are using our adult logical thinking to let our children learn the knowledge we find simple and easy.
1+1=? Isn't it very simple, for a six-year-old child? But what about a one-year-old child? It is a heavenly book. We need to make one-year-old children have a numerical awareness, know the concept of 1, the concept of addition, and assist life cases so that children can understand step by step. The truth is this, and everyone understands it, but once you teach your children, you can't do it.
Have you ever thought about teaching your children homework, and you are furious and sad. Will your children lose interest in learning because of your reaction? Will there be a psychological barrier between you because of your emotions?
In fact, what we lack is not knowledge, but how to educate children. So before teaching children homework, we should do two things first:
first, always keep a peaceful mind , remember, it was you who gave birth to you. Be more patient, be more patient, be more patient. Children can’t add or subtract hundreds of digits, maybe they haven’t learned the addition or subtraction of ten digits thoroughly. Take a step back or even a few steps back, find the most primitive knowledge points, teach slowly, teach little by little, remember that we are adults, we can do it.
Second, in your spare time, read more educational books . Now children only know how to play with electronic products, and the reason is that parents keep their hands on the phone. It’s not that you don’t care when you’re born, but that you need to be well educated. Parents are the first teacher of their children, parents are the teachers around them, and parents are the most important mobile phones for their children. Education for children should be the same as walking and driving, as a survival skill. If a son does not adopt his father’s fault, education starts with himself.
So it is not a problem of homework, not a problem that the church cannot do, but a problem of our cognitive problems. To change our cognition and educate our children, start by teaching our homework to avoid getting angry.
I am DNH many years later, an old bookworm and a new creator, your attention is my greatest encouragement.
