To borrow a popular online phrase, companionship is the longest confession. In fact, this kind of confession applies to your own children. But most of the time we focus on companionship, but ignore the content of companionship. Sometimes you are browsing your phone and your child is playing by himself; sometimes you are turning on a surveillance or video and accompanying you remotely for a few minutes; sometimes you are sitting together, you are talking about "east" and he is talking about "west". As the old saying goes, companionship is the best teacher. True quality and effective companionship do not depend on the length of time, but on the quality of companionship.
1. Learn to listen carefully
Listen carefully and help carefully. Only by understanding the real needs of children in their hearts can we discover the most real things and problems and better accompany children to solve problems.
2. Learn to respect and understand children as they deserve
Learn to be friends with children. Respect for each other is the best encouragement for children. Don’t always stand on the commanding heights and blame others with your own arrogance. We must be tolerant and know how to think from the perspective of others. More importantly, we must express our own views and understanding while respecting our children.
3. Be patient enough to accompany
Most people are not the serious problem of losing their temper with children, but we lose too much patience during the long period of time. Remember that a child will also encounter problems when facing "0" to "1" in his study and life. As a companion and answerer, we must learn to communicate patiently and effectively.
4. Don’t just focus on the “score” obtained by companionship
double reduction policy, the burden on children to learn has been reduced and the learning content has been comprehensive. Don’t just pursue how much time I spent with me to get so good grades, but to discover the diversity of my children’s . We must help our children understand themselves correctly and find the most suitable path to growth.
5. Accompanying your children to grow up
Companionship is the longest confession. As we grow up, we must set a good example for our children. Lead by example and teach by example. They grow up, we grow up.
