The National Day holiday is coming soon, and some parents plan to take their children to travel. However, many parents have a headache: if they take their children out and cry while taking public transportation, they will inevitably be embarrassed.
What should parents do and how to deal with the child being noisy outside?
Topic
"Bad kids make a high-speed rail" is on the hot search
Not all "black kids" are born "black kids", but behind all "black kids" there is a "bear parents".
Recently, the news of "naughty kids making a big fuss in the high-speed rail" and passengers' reminders were "slammed" once again hit the hot search. In the video, a child who looked three or four years old was persuaded and stopped by passengers on the same bus because of the loud noise and long duration. Unexpectedly, the child's parents spoke ill of each other and claimed that "I can't control my child well, and I can't control him" and "I think you can't go there if you are quarrel."
However, while the "naughty kids make a big fuss in the high-speed rail" incident happened frequently, there were also some good practices to understand parents, demonstrating what family education should look like, and was praised by everyone.
is also taking the high-speed rail. A mother was worried that the child was over 1 year old and cried, so she gave the child a pack of wet tissues and asked him to wipe the carriage while the train was running. From driving until getting off the bus, the child was always very excited to clean the carriage and help without causing any trouble. On the high-speed rail from Rizhao, Shandong to Wuxi, Jiangsu, a woman was afraid that her child would disturb other passengers, so she used a projector to play a silent cartoon for her child. Another mother who took her child on the plane was afraid that the 20-month-old child would cry and affect the passengers on the same plane, so she spent a month in advance to prepare a small gift package for the passengers on the same plane. In response, netizens lamented: "Qualified parents can always predict problems and solve them in advance."
hotly discussed
Should
set up a "children's carriage"
How to avoid children taking the high-speed rail noisy? Some netizens suggested setting up a "children's carriage". So, can a "non-silent car" exclusive to children really solve the noisy problem?
Industry insiders pointed out that setting up "children's carriages" does not have any technical difficulties for the railway department. However, setting up a "children's carriage" is actually a treatment of symptoms but not the root cause. If the "children's carriage" is equivalent to a noisy carriage, it is also unfair for children who are not noisy and can rest quietly. Children chasing and fighting in the car will also increase safety risks. Therefore, fundamentally speaking, parents still need to combine their children's interests and hobbies, find ways to calm their children and create a quiet and comfortable ride environment together.
Beijing-Shanghai High-Speed Railway has begun piloting the "silent carriage". In the "silent carriage", passengers need to abide by the agreements such as "using various electronic devices to wear headphones, turning off the external playback, muting the mobile phone, and leaving when answering the phone." If you are a traveler without children, you can also choose such a "silent carriage" to ride.
Tips
Spend nap time on the plane
Take children on the high-speed rail, which is difficult and requires skills. Many parents have put in their thoughts and solutions, tried and summarized some travel tips, and tried every means to make their children "quiet" in public.
Every time I take my child out for a long trip, Ms. Chang will deliberately choose a flight or train that is near noon. Why do you choose to travel at noon? Ms. Chang explained that children often have regular schedules. If they wake up too early in the morning or go to bed too late at night in order to catch a plane or a train, they may cause the child to be discomfort and cry endlessly due to "noisy". To this end, she usually chooses a flight that takes off at around 11 a.m. In this way, the child can get up at normal times without getting up.
When the plane took off, the child's freshness had not passed yet, and at least it could be quiet for a while. When the child feels a little bored, it is lunch time, and the twenty or thirty minutes of dining can successfully divert the child's attention. After lunch, I started to take a nap. “About an hour or so nap time is over, and usually only thirty or forty minutes left before the plane lands, and the dawn of victory is right in front."
All parent-child companion
The first time I took my two-year-old child to take the train alone, Ms. Wang was very confused. In order to prevent the child from crying on the train, Ms. Wang made sufficient preparations for the more than four-hour journey.
"The child is young, and it is definitely impossible to let him sit quietly for more than 4 hours. New things must attract his attention at any time to avoid his crying to the greatest extent. "So, Ms. Wang divided the journey into different time periods and prepared a "travel tip" for each time period.
The first time period when she got on the train, Ms. Wang took the child who took the train for the first time to "exploration" the car. How fast the train was, what the train seats were like, where the toilet was, and what delicious food was in the dining car... After some exploration, the child's curiosity was satisfied and he also had a preliminary understanding of the train. In the second time period, Ms. Wang took out a carefully selected storybook and began to tell stories to the children on the train. The third time period , one by one, took out the hand puppet toys, Ms. Wang sat in her seat, whispered to perform the puppet show for her child . After the puppet show, she took out the drawing paper and brush to encourage the child to try to draw the puppet show just now.
In the more than four hours of driving, the two-year-old child did not cry, which made Ms. Wang feel very pleased and greatly enhanced her confidence: "The younger children cannot concentrate for a long time, so parents need to constantly provide new things to help their children spend time in a small space. Although parents are a little tired, the facts have proved that the method of parent-child companionship throughout the whole process is very effective, and it has successfully helped the children through the difficult time in the car. "
Ms. Wang said that during the ride, keeping the child quiet to the greatest extent and avoiding noise and disturbing other passengers is actually an education for the child, allowing the child to learn basic "car ride etiquette" from an early age. Instead of asking for forgiveness and letting other passengers endure the child's noise, parents should find ways to make the child less noisy and not noisy.
teaches "dining etiquette"
Although she is also the mother of the child, Ms. Zhang admitted that she would go out and go out. During meals, if you encounter a noisy child, you will still find it "very annoying".
In order to avoid becoming a "bear parent" in the eyes of others, Ms. Zhang has always paid great attention to cultivating her children's "dining etiquette". Once the child cries in the restaurant, she will immediately carry the child out and stand outside the restaurant door with her to "calm for a moment". Only after the child calms down will she enter the restaurant again. "When the child cries, whether he scolds the child in the restaurant or reasons for the child, the crying sound will actually interfere with other customers' meals. So since childhood, we set rules for our children to let them know that as long as we cry, we must finish dining and leave the restaurant immediately. Only by keeping quiet can we continue to enter public places. "
Service
Railway: It is natural for children to be equipped with air cushion beds on the train
Children are lively and active. In order to give children a place to "release energy", children's playground has become the standard for newly built railway stations. At Beijing Fengtai Station, children's playground is set up in the waiting hall. The colorful amusement facilities are very eye-catching. Children happily climb up and down and drill in and out on the climbing facilities. "The children are active and cannot stay idle. With such a play space, they will not worry about affecting other passengers, which is particularly good. "A woman who took her children back to her hometown in Taiyuan said. She also noticed that the children's play area was fully soft-packed. Even if the children bumped during play, parents don't have to worry about safety issues. Compared with the station, the running train has limited space, which will bring greater challenges to parents with children. The reporter saw on the Beijing-Zhangjiakou High-speed Railway train that in order to allow the baby to have a stable sleep during the journey, the passenger transport department equipped the air mattress on the train, which was stuck between the front and rear seats. The baby can lie straight directly, and the older babies can also stretch their legs and have a good rest.
" Such measures are very considerate.Before my child was 3 years old, I would choose the time when my child took him out to take a nap in and was sleepy in . This would consume physical energy before getting on the bus and sleep when getting on the bus. Our parents would be liberated, and other passengers in the car would not be disturbed. "Ms. Sun, a citizen, summarized her experience.
Some railway passenger transport teams have also come up with many tricks to coax children. Wu Li, the conductor of the Beijing Passenger Transport Section Jingqin fleet, introduced that the team purchased different small toys based on the personality characteristics and hobbies of boys and girls. For example, Barbie dolls for girls can be changed into different small clothes; and smaller toy pistols are prepared for boys. In addition, picture book readings were also prepared, and children will be taken to draw and make lanterns during traditional festivals.
Airport: A special "little passenger" paradise is set up in the B finger gallery of Daxing Airport Terminal B 6", there are children's entertainment facilities such as woods, spacecraft and animal soft stools. The environment is vivid and interesting, bringing surprises and joy to children's travel. Under the C-shaped column on the west side of the second floor of the
terminal, a children's maze park is also set up. With the plant maze as the theme, it creates a green and natural children's playground, providing "little travelers" with a fun indoor labyrinth. At the same time, the Daxing Airport terminal is equipped with sufficient cartoon-shaped children's fun cars, children's cars, self-service baby strollers, etc., which not only frees parents and passengers' travel, but also brings happiness to "little travelers". "These cars at the airport are so great that children like to twist the steering wheel and look forward to playing every time they take the plane. For places like train stations, bus stations, supermarkets, etc., you can learn from and promote them if you have the conditions. "Citizen Mr. Li suggested.
(Original title: We have to follow the rules when traveling with children on the 11th)
Source: Beijing Evening News Reporter Sun Hongyang Zhang Nan
Process Editor: U022
