High intelligence is not born. Mom insists on doing one thing before going to bed every day
cultivating children's super intelligence
In a blink of an eye, my son has been in kindergarten for a while. What makes me happy is that the child not only does not cry and feel uncomfortable like other children, but performs very well. A few days ago, I went to pick up the child from school. The teacher also specifically praised him and said that my son is very smart. Whether he is learning knowledge or playing games, he is very agile and has high learning efficiency. He is really a "primary school bull".
result. When the other parents next to him heard the teacher say this, they gathered up and interrupted, "Cowboy Mom, just share your parenting secrets with us. Later, the teacher suggested that I just want to share it with you next time the parent meeting. When I saw the teacher and other parents say this, I was really disrespectful, and I felt a little upset in my heart. To be honest, I really don’t have any special methods to educate my son. The main thing is to grasp it well. I just guide and educate my children during the critical period of their growth and development.
grasps the critical period of children's growth and development
Many parents believe that whether children are smart or not is destined to be smart. Smart children are born smart, and the same is true for stupid children. Therefore, when educating children, they often use this as an excuse to be lazy, and as a result, the children become more and more stupid. In fact, a child’s intelligence is not only affected by innate genetic factors, but also depends on acquired development and cultivation. Therefore, in the process of raising children, parents must pay attention to the development and cultivation of acquired factors. Since innate factors have not been changed, they should work harder after birth. In reality, there are many cases of children's intellectual counterattack, so parents must not slacken.
In addition, parents should also note that children's intellectual development has time limits. Generally speaking, before the age of 6, it is the "golden period" of children's intellectual development. At this stage, on the one hand, the child's brain development will basically be completed before the age of 3, and the brain weight will reach the adult's volume. On the other hand, in the stages of 3-6, the child's abilities will also be well trained and improved. So if parents can seize this critical period of children's intelligence development and cultivation before the child's age is 6, then for the child's brain development, it will have the effect of twice the result with half the effort, which will make the child smarter. After going to school in the future, learn better
in the right way to develop and cultivate children's intelligence
In essence, the so-called brain development is actually the process of keeping the child's brain cells active, and then stimulating the child's brain intelligence higher. So after trying many methods, I found that reading bedtime stories to children is a most direct and cost-effective way to develop intelligence, because during the process of reading bedtime stories, the child's brain will continue to remain active under the stimulation of the parents' voices and the content of the story, thereby triggering the child's brain to think and operate, making the child's brain smarter and develop better.
Generally speaking, parents can read bedtime stories for their children from three to four months. When the children grow older and reach the stage of speaking, parents not only have to read stories, but also actively interact with their children, so as to help their children develop their intelligence better and make them grow better. In addition, there are many benefits to reading bedtime stories to children from an early age, especially the following four benefits are really very obvious.
Reading bedtime stories can cultivate children's language expression ability
The vocabulary of bedtime stories is often very rich, and it also contains many expression methods that are not in life dialogues. So for children who are learning to speak, it is easy to accumulate vocabulary well in the process of listening to bedtime stories, improve their expression ability, and make children's language expression ability stronger.
Like my son, although he didn't speak early, he made great progress after speaking quickly and his expression was very advanced. Therefore, after going to kindergarten, whether with children or with teachers, the children can express themselves well and are unanimously loved and welcomed by teachers and classmates.
Reading bedtime stories can improve children's memory
My son just turned 3 years and 8 months this month, and he can recite 200 ancient poems and dozens of nursery rhymes. Moreover, less than a month after going to kindergarten, the child also learned to count within 30 and add or subtract within 10, and his memory was really strong. After all, the reason why children have such good memory is inseparable from insisting on reading bedtime stories. At the beginning, I just let the children listen simply, and gradually I will guide the children to retell the stories they hear, and therefore, the children's memory becomes stronger and stronger.
Reading bedtime stories can cultivate children's personality habits
Many parents will find that after the age of two, their children will become very rebellious, disobedient, and have all kinds of bad habits and bad habits. If parents only know how to scold their children, then their children will become very timid and inferior. If parents indulge their children in turn, they will often make their children domineering and selfish. In short, no matter which one is, it is very unfavorable to the children's growth and will also affect their children's learning and interpersonal communication after school.
. By reading bedtime stories, it can often help children set a good example, so that children can become more and more confident and cheerful from the characters in the book, understand how to empathize with others, and can also help children develop good habits of independence, good hygiene habits, etc., which is very helpful for cultivating children's personality and habits.
Reading bedtime stories can cultivate children's concentration
During the process of reading bedtime stories, children are often deeply attracted by the content of the story, and the various organs of the body will be perfectly mobilized, so the child's concentration will naturally become very high. In the end, the child's concentration is getting stronger and stronger. After going to school, the child's performance will be better.
I have to say that reading bedtime stories is really helpful to children's intelligence and ability improvement, and has many benefits for children's growth. However, parents need to be reminded that when choosing bedtime story books, they must make careful choices. What I chose for my children is this series of picture books "Baby Bedtime Story". This set of books is divided into two versions: 40 volumes and 100 volumes. Parents can choose according to their actual needs. Read with your child for 10-30 minutes every day, and gradually cultivate your child’s bedtime reading habits. Let children's concentration, memory, language performance, etc. be improved
In addition, for children, this set of bedtime stories is also very interesting. Not only is the story content vivid and interesting, but the way of matching pictures and texts is easier to attract children's attention, stimulate their interest in reading, and benefit children a lot.
The most important thing is that although the story of this set of books is short, the content is rich, which can help children improve their cognitive abilities and lay a solid foundation for their children to go to school in the future. Moreover, all the short stories in the book start from the actual life of children, which is more convenient for children to enter themselves and facilitate them to understand and master them.
So if you have children of appropriate age in your family, you can place an order, see you next time.
