has been very popular with "Chicken Baby" and "Rolling Inside" recently. As children grow up, parents keep up with each other. In order to realize their ideals, they urge their children to study like they have been injected with chicken blood every day.
In fact, the first generation of "chicken babies" has become adults. Many netizens said that under the supervision of their parents, they did nothing in the end.
No matter what happened before, it is the most common thing to join the army of "ordinary people". Only a few people stood out and became leaders in the industry. There are of course many exceptions to
. When these people grow up, they look back on their childhood and are grateful for their parents' strict requirements. It is because of their parents' strictness that they are today. Jay Chou is like this, Lang Lang is like this.
"Buddhist" mothers are more likely to raise excellent children.
There is a saying on the Internet: The more a mother believes in Buddhism, the easier it is for the child to be excellent.
I agree with this statement.
Under the strict requirements of parents, there are still people with outstanding achievements in the end. Similarly, parents retain the "Buddhist system" to leave enough space for their children. Children eventually become excellent people, and there are many such people. The experiences of the top students are similar. Parents of academic masters never need to worry about their children's studies.
For the top few, it is not within the scope of our discussion, because geniuses often require more talent, and it is not the final achievement that can be achieved by the strict requirements of parents.
The scope of our discussion is limited to ordinary people. For ordinary people, living independently, enjoying life, being filial to their parents, taking care of their families, and getting education are all excellent.
"Buddhist" parents are more likely to raise excellent children. Here, Buddhism means leaving enough space for children, rather than ignoring them.
limits the general direction and putting down details is the highest level of raising children.
When I was in high school, I had a roommate named Xiaoxue (pseudonym). Her personality is abrupt. The reason why she is abrupt is that she is a very casual person. She was indifferent when everyone was trying to catch up with each other.
I remember one time she asked for leave for the first class at noon, but forgot the reason for taking leave. After finishing, she returned to the classroom and pushed the door open but didn't. She went back to the dormitory directly and didn't go to class for an afternoon.
The wind was very strong at that time, the teacher locked the door and she skipped class for a long time.
Even in class, she is very casual and rarely looks up and listens. She is an example every time.
She said that her family grew up in such an environment, and her parents never restricted her, so she would not feel any pressure.
However, during the holidays, she has done enough homework. She reads books when she is bored at home and previews in advance.
Because her mother told her, "We don't care about your business or your studies. You can do it yourself. If you want to study easier, you don't need to be so nervous in class. You'd better take a look ahead. It'll be very relaxing."
Later, she got into Jilin University . After graduation, she returned to the city and worked in , a mobile company. She has no big ambitions, has a stable job and a stable family, and she laughs every day.
But there is no doubt that she is successful and she is also excellent, although in the eyes of many teachers, she is not a traditional good student.
Xiaoxue is a typical example. Her parents restricted her education direction. If you want to be a well-educated person, you'd better finish your studies and not make mistakes in principle. You can handle other small things yourself. Her parents could even allow her to skip classes, but only if she can handle her own classes well.
Buddhist parents are more likely to raise independent children.
Compared with parents who do everything themselves, "Buddhist" parents are obviously more likely to raise independent and self-reliant children.
The old saying goes, lazy mothers raise diligent babies. Diligent mothers can easily make their children lazy because mothers do everything for their children, and the children only need to open their mouths and clothes to reach out. If the mother is lazy, the child has to worry about everything himself. Over time, children's independence and hands-on ability have been improved.
Buddhist language is not ignored by children.Buddhist mothers should still help their children achieve good qualities and should not let their children go astray.
Compared with a big bag, Buddha Mom is indeed more suitable for children's growth and is more conducive to improving children's independence and adaptability.
The essence of Buddhism lies in taking everything in your eyes, showing weakness in front of your children, and letting them be the ones who use their own brains. The advantage of doing this is that children can not only be independent as soon as possible, but also liberate themselves as soon as possible, giving themselves the opportunity to become a beautiful mother. why not!
