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Sociologists surveyed the number of children and family happiness, and made the survey data into a chart, taking the age of parents as the horizontal axis. They found that before the parents' age was 60, the happiness of the only child family was relatively high, and after the parents' age was 60, the happiness of the second child family would be higher than that of the only child family!
So it is better to have one child or two children? From what age group, thinks it’s good to have a child before the age of 60, but after the age of 60, I realize that two children will make me happier!
The second reason: Before parents are 60 years old, the child is the age to spend money
Most people will have children between the ages of 20 and 30, and when parents are 60 years old, most of the children have finished their studies and come out to work, and some have already started their families, that is, the major events in life have basically been completed.
But Many major things in life need the help of parents, For example, the money for school needs to be paid by parents, and the money for getting married and buying a house often needs to be sponsored by parents.
This way, the more money the children spend, the more they will spend, and naturally the parents' sense of happiness will be lower.
If there are fewer children, they will naturally spend less money. Parents can control more money themselves, and naturally they will have a higher sense of happiness!
The third reason: before the age of 60, I am healthy
Before the age of 60, I can still manage myself, so the burden on my children is lighter, and I can have time to do my own things. Before the age of 60, I will naturally have fewer children, and my sense of happiness will be stronger.
There are more children and more things, which will naturally affect your planning and reduce your sense of happiness.
Why does parents have a stronger sense of happiness after the age of 60? The reason is very realistic
1. I am old, I hope that my children and grandchildren will have no burden of work after retirement at the age of 60, and will have more free time. When people get older, I hope that my children and grandchildren will have their knees . This child has no time and that child has time. I can see his children every day and feel very happy.
. With more children, there will be more grandchildren. Having a small grandson with the elderly will make the elderly very happy and their sense of happiness will naturally be stronger.
2. When you get older, you have many physical problems
60 years old, your body begins to decline, and various problems arise. Moreover, When the elderly are old, sometimes they cannot keep up with the pace of the times, and they need help from young people.
For example, helping yourself buy medicine, helping yourself register at the hospital, etc. If there is only one child, if the child has no time, there is really no way, but if there are two children, it will be much easier.
In fact, we work harder when we are young. Raising one more child will make us feel happier when we are old.
Now the country has relaxed the second and third childbirth, and some places even give corresponding economic rewards for giving birth to second and third childbirth, such as 500 yuan per month or a one-time birth subsidy, which shows that is suggesting that everyone should have more children.
More than a child has been harder when you are young, but when you get older, you will only experience the benefits when you have more children.
My cousin gave birth to two sons. When I was young, it was really hard to raise two children to go to school. It took me a month to eat a meal. But now my cousin is older and my two children are older, so I have started to enjoy my happiness.
My brother Maoping didn't have very good academic performance. Later, he stayed at home to do some small business and took care of his parents.
And his younger brother Maofan is doing business in Shenzhen. The business is quite big and he is busy with time. However, he gives money to his parents every year and also gives money to his brother because his brother takes care of his parents at home.
So now my cousin's later life is very comfortable. He can do whatever he wants to eat and buy. When he is sick, he will directly ask his son to take him to the hospital for examination and hospitalization!
All countries allow births, so let’s have two more children, so pension will be more secure in the future.
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