Hello everyone, I am a senior family education instructor Love.
Do you want your child to be loved by the teacher at school?
Of course I want it! However, some small things that parents often don’t care about will make the teacher disgusted with the child, and will even let the child be placed in the corner, but the parents are not aware of it and have not yet figured out why the child cannot get the attention and liked by the teacher at school.
Parents should not let their children do three things for the sake of their children's good. The teacher did not say it clearly, but he was very disgusted in his heart. What things will happen to make the teacher disgusted and even affect the children's performance in school?
The first type is to call the teacher every day
Some parents have no way to their children and are looking forward to their children's progress, so they call the teacher every day, telling the child's situation, hoping to get the teacher's care.
But I never thought that the teacher had to work for a day and had to be busy with housework when he got home, take care of the children, and have time to rest and relax. Parents’ phone calls will make the teacher’s own affairs aside, which will affect the teacher’s rest time.
The situation told to the teacher, such as the child does not like to study and does not behave well, and the teacher cannot take care of the child specifically. There are dozens of students in the class and the teaching plan is still required. Especially if you can't have a good rest every day, the teacher will also feel disgusted.
The second type is facing negative attitude, various tasks arranged by the teacher.
check in, hand in hand to copy newspapers, and complete various strange tasks. Some parents find it too annoying and will deliberately fail to complete it. Some of them cannot be completed. For example, installing a special thing on the car. The teacher has a task. When it cannot complete it, they will look for which parents do not cooperate.
Task is also part of the teacher's work. If parents do not cooperate, the teacher will be disgusted with such children in their own class.
The third type is that there are too many things for children. I often bother the teacher
Let the children order food in the class. Some children do not order and want to go home to eat. The teacher also thinks that they do not cooperate with their work. If the child is asked to participate in school activities together, but the child does not participate. Seeing that all other classes are present, the teacher will feel embarrassed.
No matter how many reasons parents have, the children are too special and there are too many things, the teacher will also have negative emotions. We asked everyone to order water at school, but some children suggested that they would not drink cold water and the school would not provide hot water, so they could only bring it themselves. Children have their own reasons, and teachers cannot take care of them all carefully.
It is understandable that it is tiring to raise a child by yourself. The teacher has to take care of dozens of students, teach, manage discipline, and hope that his tasks will be completed. It is understandable.
Parents want their children to be taken care of by teachers. How can they make their children love?
First of all, the child has a respectful heart for the teacher.
can see the teacher’s needs and actively help the teacher do something. It comes from the fact that children have a respect for teachers. How can they make children respect teachers?
Parents should guide their children to see the hard work of teachers. This is how to work together to raise parents and schools, teachers teach knowledge, and parents cultivate their children's wisdom and emotional intelligence, so that they can walk more easily on the road of life!
Secondly, cooperate with the teacher's work.
When my child was in elementary school, the teacher wanted to participate in a calligraphy and painting competition organized by the Education Bureau. Knowing that my son had learned calligraphy and painting, he arranged the task.
In order to do a good job, we specially found the words written by the calligraphy teacher. When I saw the calligraphy works, I knew that the teacher would definitely like it.It was only when the parent-teacher meeting that I learned that the teacher won the first prize for this work, and the child naturally received the care of the teacher.
Finally, I have specialties to compete for honor for the class.
When participating in some activities and competitions, children with special skills have received rankings and honors, which is particularly happy for the teacher. For example, when participating in a competition in a provincial and municipal area, when a child wins the first prize, the teacher will copy the certificate and leave it in his teaching experience. If a child has specialties, he will receive more care and preference from the teacher.
Suggestions for parents
An old neighbor of me has been a teacher all his life. When chatting, even if parents give gifts to teachers, their children perform poorly and they don’t make any more progress when they want to take care of them.
Parents educate their children well and cultivate them well, and will naturally be loved by teachers in school.
When I was learning calligraphy, some parents gave gifts during the holidays in order to let the teacher take more care of him. However, the child was too naughty, which affected everyone's class every time. The teacher wanted to teach him more, but he couldn't do anything.
If you want your children to get care in school, parents pay more attention to their children's words and behaviors in daily life. Children respect teachers enough, study hard in school, have outstanding abilities and outstanding talents, and will naturally get it!
What do you do when you hope your child will be loved by the teacher?
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