Author: Five-layer
I don’t know when it started, maybe it was the age of childbearing. The elders around me will instill some of the things that are important to me about having children. What's the best thing to do is not to have a tiger baby! There are some incredible things in my opinion.
But in fact, you really encounter a taboo, and no one will use this as an excuse to affect the child. However, her friend Lili was not so lucky, so she met a special mother-in-law.
Almost at the beginning of this year, Lili found out that she was 2 months pregnant. This is really good news for the couple. Because the couple has been preparing for pregnancy for two years, this sudden baby is definitely a lucky star.
, but Lili just told her in-laws about this good news. The next day, my mother-in-law ran to their house.
Lili thought that her mother-in-law was here to share the joy. Who would have thought that shortly after my mother-in-law sat down, she solemnly said to Lili: I'll do it, your child's due date is about the tenth month of the lunar calendar! This month is not good, so you might as well give up this child while you are pregnant!
? When Lili heard this, she was so surprised that she couldn't even close her mouth. She didn't understand what her mother-in-law meant. What happened to the tenth month of the lunar calendar? What are the taboos this month?
Maybe I felt my wife’s confusion, and my mother-in-law quickly said that she was not engaged in feudal superstition. Don't get me wrong! She was completely considering the child. First of all, your child will affect his or her schooling and make him or her one year older than others. This will affect the future in the future. Furthermore, babies born in the tenth month of the lunar calendar will have bad fortune. Think about it, if you are born with a bad life, how can you live? As parents, how can you be so irresponsible to him!
As soon as Lili said, she didn't know how to answer. In her opinion, this is nonsense. What affects going to school? What is the most common thing is that if the children born in the tenth month of the lunar calendar are born, others will live a good life, but their own children will definitely not be able to do it?
But after all, she was facing her mother-in-law, and Lili chose to keep silent. My husband was by the side and talked nonsense with his mother for a long time, and then sent her mother-in-law away without conclusion.
Lili thought that if she didn't express her opinion, she was already expressing her opinion. I didn't expect that in the days that followed, my mother-in-law saw that she was pregnant more severely and vomited whatever she ate and was very haggard.
So, I predicted that this child was not suitable for coming. She tried her best to dissuade Lili and quickly resolved it while it was too late. This is for your own good! It’s also for the good of the children! Don't think I'm talking nonsense, what I'm saying makes sense.
In order not to offend her mother-in-law, Lili explained at the beginning that she thought nothing was certain.
The mother-in-law is getting more and more intense, and she even brings her father-in-law together but says that she wants her to compromise. Lili could only refuse their proposal directly. She knew that if she didn't agree to deal with the child, she would definitely offend her in-laws. But this is my own child, how could he give up because of some ridiculous reasons! Is this reasonable?
After this, Lili's in-laws basically never came to the house. They think that one day their daughter-in-law will suffer the consequences. Then, they will see who is right.
After hearing this, we all felt that we were two old stubborn people. Maybe there is something wrong with Lili’s mother-in-law. But how can you give up on your child because of something that has not happened yet? What's more, the harm she thinks is insignificant in my opinion.
Moreover, if there are really grandparents, would they be so cruel and willing to give up their grandchildren? As Lili's due date approaches, I think when they see their cute children, they should change their minds!
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