"Your kid is so smart."
"Where is where".
Pretending to be modest parents actually think like this in their hearts: "Don't stop and continue to praise, praise the specific one."
As a result, one did not say anything, the other did not ask, and said goodbye with a polite smile, the parents said that this praise was like scratching the itch through the boots, which was unsatisfactory.
In fact, it is not difficult to be strong. According to the editor's observation, smart kids generally have these common features, so you might as well check it yourself!
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Smart children often have these 6 characteristics. How many of your children have you won?
Feature 1: Love to break the casserole and ask the end
Some children seem to have a book in their minds "00,000 Why ", and they always like to ask until the end to understand.
It is also a good thing for children to like to ask questions, which means that the child’s brain is thinking all the time. Only when the brain keeps running can it become more flexible, which is conducive to the development of and design of the child’s brain.
Therefore, parents must patiently respond to their children's problems, do not be perfunctory, or even show an annoying attitude. Only reasonable and correct guidance can promote children's logical thinking ability.
Feature 2: Be able to solve problems by yourself
Smart children are different from ordinary children in the same way. Smart children always find ways to solve their own difficulties first. In fact, they enjoy the satisfaction after solving these problems.
Overy children may call adults for help as soon as possible, or cry out in anger, so it can be concluded that children with high IQ have stronger ability to handle problems by themselves.
Feature 3: Good memory
From the memory ability, you can also see whether a child is smart. The smarter the child, the higher the memory ability. If parents find that their children have good memory, they need to guide their children to make good use of them correctly so that their children's memory ability can be maintained on their advantages.
Naturally, having good memory ability is not necessarily valuable, but it can also be shaped in the later stage. Parents can gradually discover their children's potential and teach them how to better remember things.
Feature 4: You can focus on doing one thing
Some parents will question this point: "Is it a characteristic of intelligence for children to focus on one thing?"
This is true, because children's concentration in childhood is not very concentrated. If they see something interesting around them, their concentration will be attracted. A child’s ability to devote himself to one thing can be said to be the main manifestation of high IQ.
Feature 5: Know how to observe words and colors
Whether you are happy or unhappy, your teammates may not be able to see it, but the child will definitely see it - when you are happy, he will do it, and when you are unhappy, he will be much more obedient (restrained).
Is your personality strong or weak, principled or swinging, you may not be able to define it yourself, but the child can definitely summarize it - whether you can gain a goal and what aspects cannot be erased, he has a scale in his heart.
Children who can observe what they say and what they say will have good observation and summary ability. Parents should interact with them more and formulate corresponding family rules (such as what things must not be done, so that children can be sensible and have a bottom line in doing things).
Feature 6: Good hand development
Researchers also emphasized that the development trend of children's brain not only depends on the growth and development of the brain, but also attach great importance to the "second brain", that is, the growth and development of human hands. As long as the hands grow well, this can also promote a more comprehensive and reasonable development trend of the brain.
If the brain is more comprehensively developed and designed, it must promote the growth and development of the baby's second brain and find the right way to promote the improvement of IQ.
Since the hands are the baby's second brain, as a parent, how should we help our children develop and design the second brain and promote their IQ to improve?
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What factors are affected by the IQ of a child?
Genetic factors
Generally speaking, parents have high IQ and children have not low IQ. This genetic factor is also reflected in blood relationships. The average IQ of children whose parents are locals is 102, and the average IQ of children born after marriage in other provinces is 109. If parents are cousins, the probability of children having IQ problems is high.
Breast milk factor
Breast milk contains a variety of active substances that promote children's intellectual development, especially taurine , which has an important impact on intellectual development. According to surveys, it is 10 times that of milk. Children who grow up with breast milk are about 3-10 points higher than those who grow up with breast milk substitutes.
Dietary factors
Children who eat too much meat or are greedy will have lower intelligence, and children who do not eat breakfast will be affected because the protein , sugar, vitamins and trace elements they consume in breakfast are important ingredients that make the brain healthy.
In addition, children with a weight of more than 20% of normal children have lower ability to receive vision, hearing and knowledge. This is because excessive fat enters the brain of obese children, which will hinder the development of nerve cells and the proliferation of nerve fibers.
Environmental factors
Children who have not received maternal love and good education will have a relatively low IQ. According to research, the average IQ of these children at the age of 3 is only 60.5. On the contrary, the average IQ of a child with a good environment is 91.
