Ancient poem says: "I don't know how to study hard early when my hair is old, but I regret studying too late." All of us moms recognize the importance of reading. hopes that their children can be happy, brave, intelligent, cute and likable.
is more acknowledged reading, which means that the earlier the better. Taking advantage of the first high-speed stage of the baby's brain development, if the guidance is correct, you will have the opportunity to train your baby into a prodigy.
But soon, moms had a big confusion. Although I bought a lot of cards and books for my baby early, the baby doesn’t seem to like reading it very much and has no interest in books. Still immersed in toys and games and happy.
The baby is so young, so it seems that it is not easy to tell him the principles of studying or scold him. When reading a baby, you should still focus on guidance. Therefore, many mothers are anxious again: How to guide?
To guide children to love reading, we must first understand why children do not love them. Babies aged 3-5 are definitely not unwilling to learn, they have no idea about learning.
Before this, all their activities were played, they could play with food, drink milk, fire, water, and poop. . . .
So in the hearts of children, reading may be the same as other things, and can be used to play. But after he found that reading was a "not so fun thing", he was in a lack of interest.
Here I will share some methods. The effect is very good and it is very simple to change
- Read for them, insist on reading for them, Keep reading to them, read to them every day
k Children don’t like reading because they don’t recognize many words. Although they don’t like reading, they love to listen to stories. If your baby is very young, you can read it to him. The effects of listening to books and reading books are similar.
The key is to let children understand that reading is a very interesting thing. Maybe he was a little tired of his mother in the early stage, but gradually he loved to listen to stories and would go to find books by himself, and his mother would be liberated;
. Buy any book they are interested in for , any book is fine, as long as If your child has any interest, buy, buy, buy, this is the cheapest investment.
. Parents themselves also need to read books . Some parents hate reading books themselves, but they hope that their children like to read. In fact, children are parents' prints. The child is most likely to be like what you are.
So parents' behavior will subtly affect their children. It is best for parents to take time out every day to read with their mobile phones and computers. It can be parent-child reading, or read the picture books of the child, or read it to the child (see the first point for details) or parents read their own books. It is OK.
4. Make the child go to bed early, and then let the child read the book without having to sleep. privilege . If you choose to "read a book for half an hour or go to bed immediately", most of the children choose to read books. This does not necessarily mean that the children love reading, but that they all hate sleeping.
5. links reading with the entertainment activities he loves . Take your children outdoors to play and read in a tent, in a hammock, and in a boat. All reading activities that can give children fresh and interesting experiences are what children want.
create more such opportunities, and children will Reading is equated with happiness, and he will fall in love with reading.
6. Children don’t like to read for us, but children will definitely like to read for their pets/toys. Use pets and children's beloved toys as a substitute, so that children can read to them.
If there are siblings at home, let the child read to their siblings, or whoever the child is willing to read to, create conditions for the child to read, whether the object is an ant , a butterfly or anything strange.
7. Can only be read by books? Please note the ubiquitous prints! For example, when shopping with children in malls, and slogans in stores, these are all created by many creative/copywriters racking their brains?
In addition to shopping malls, newspapers, magazines, and various leaflets are all read.
I have met a female editor in an advertising company who works while taking care of her children. Her son has been a master of goods since childhood under the influence of his mother. He is very brave and outgoing, and has a cheerful personality. I have already started to try to make money at a young age. It is not easy to experience the adults making money.
. I will share it here today. Actually, I have more experience in guiding reading. If you need it, leave a message to tell me. I will open another issue~