A few days ago, I saw a video that the mother of a 1 and a half-year-old girl died of illness. The baby was quietly and obediently outside the cremation room, not crying or making a fuss. The sentence "I'll wait for my mother to come out" instantly It makes people cry.
The small figure wandered in the open corridor. Looking at this scene, my heart felt like I was being grabbed, and it hurts very much.
A small heart, but I have to endure such a big change, I dare not imagine some scenes.
When she wants to accompany her, when she wants to lie in her mother's arms, when she wants to hold her hands, when she wants to call her mother...
When she is older, other children have mothers to pick her up and drop off to school. Mom holds it high, and there is a mother hugging it...
What will the child's heart be like?
Helpless, lonely, fearful, inferior...
The tip of the nose is sore and the eyes are moist.
dare not think about it anymore, nor do you want to think about it anymore.
Suddenly I felt that as parents, the best love we can give our children is to take good care of ourselves and love ourselves well.
01 Only by loving yourself can you shelter your children from wind and rain
Before Pangu opened the world, the world was in chaos. After the world was opened up, there were sunshine, rain and dew, birds singing, flowers fragrance, mountains, rivers, and all things. The world is bright and beautiful.
And parents are the heaven and earth of their children.
Because of parents, children grow up happier and happier.
Support the child’s sky and the land, and we must make ourselves a strong “Optimus Prime” to protect our children’s growth.
So we must love ourselves. In addition to force majeure and fate, we usually start from the body, become healthy and powerful, and become stronger externally, so that we can give our children a warm harbor and a solid arm when facing difficulties and setbacks.
02 Only by loving yourself can you strive to support your child’s future
love yourself, which is not only reflected in the external strength and health, but also in the internal strength and prosperity.
is strong enough in his heart, has a higher cognitive level, has more knowledge, has stronger abilities, and has richer experience, the more he can teach his children.
can protect the children and strive to support them for the future.
Love yourself first and take good care of yourself in order to take better care of your children. Dear parents, have you started to love yourself for your children and for yourself?
May all parents have a healthy body and a rich soul to support, nourish and protect their children's confidence and happiness in growth.
May all children grow up healthily under the care, protection and good guidance of their parents.
There is no longer the pain and parting of black-haired people sending white-haired people.
I am Yuanjie, a new media editor, family education instructor , family education lifelong learner and practitioner, committed to helping more families solve parenting problems and helping more writers solve writing confusion ~
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