#二婷女人growingssorainianday37 When you want to convince someone, start in a friendly way. I just read a story about the sun and the wind: One day, the sun and the wind were arguing about who was stronger. The wind said, "No doubt, it must be me. Look at the old man in the coat belo

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When you want to convince someone, please start in a friendly way.

I just read a story about the sun and the wind from a book:

One day, the sun and the wind were arguing about who was stronger. The wind said, "No doubt, it must be me. Look at the old man in the coat below, I bet , I can make him take off his coat faster than you."

said, the wind blew hard at the old man, hoping to blow the old man's coat off. But the more it blew, the tighter the old man's coat became.

Later, when the wind was blowing hard, the sun came out from behind and shone warmly on the old man. After a while, the old man started to sweat and took off his coat.

So the sun said to the wind: "Gentleness and kindness are always more powerful than fierceness and violence."

The same is true in life. Some people and things that seem to be difficult, if you hold the idea that it is difficult to handle at the beginning, it will lead to If you deal with your emotions, you may not get the results you want.

A gentle, friendly and appreciative attitude may make it easier for people to change their minds.

Treat children the same way. Summer vacation has begun, and you spend more time with your children. The summer vacation that children look forward to may be a difficult time for parents.

When fighting wits and courage, use a gentle, friendly and appreciative way to get along with your children. Definitely more enjoyable than the growling and lashing out approach!