Child, what are you missing?
Tan Jinou
Today’s children, what are you missing? Is it a lack of nutritional protein or vitamin ABC? Or lack of calcium, which strengthens muscles and bones? oh! No, if you have fish and meat for three meals, you will not lack nutrients. If you drink milk and eat bread, you will not lack calcium. If you have large and small bottles of vitamin supplements, your body will not lack vitamins. Because you don't lack these, you can even say you have a surplus, so you grow tall and strong, and you have the appearance of a strong adult at a young age!
So, today’s children, what do you lack? Do you, who seem happy and carefree on the surface, really lack everything? oh! No, you lack magnanimity, you lack a considerate heart, you lack patience, you lack the perseverance to endure hardships... Even if you don’t care, you still don’t know, but you lack so much!
Today's children are always self-centered. Under the pampering of their parents and the warmth of the family, they can do whatever they want and do whatever they want. There is nothing against their will in the process of growing up. Because of this, you don't know how to be considerate and understanding of others. You only have eyes for yourself, only care about your own desires, and ignore the feelings of others. In your eyes, your parents are just servants who satisfy you with clothes, food and mouth. !
Under the protection of your family, it is too easy to get what you want, and everything you ask for will be granted. Even if you lose your temper, your parents will swallow their anger and accommodate you in every possible way. You feel that you are awesome, I am the best in the world, and nothing can go against your heart. So you have no patience, no perseverance, and you can't stand the slightest grievance. You think you are a great person, but your self-confidence is as blind as a tender bean sprout, which cannot stand the breath of others! He is willful like an unweaned baby, crying for no reason just for a mouthful of "milk"!
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In fact, as a child today, you are only the only one in your parents' eyes. In the sweet life created by your parents, you are the young master or the little princess. But in the real society, in the eyes of others, you may be nothing. Others have no obligation to accommodate you or cater to you, let alone sacrifice or pay anything for you unconditionally. Because they are not your parents, your aunts, your grandma, and other relatives who are primarily focused on you.
Today's children, you should be happy, but if you are often unhappy, you are asking for it! Because you are brooding over trivial things, you are sulking over life that does not go your way, and you lose your self-confidence because of a little setback. What's more, he gave up his life for a small failure!
Today's children, your body is taller and stronger than your parents. It is an exaggeration to say that your strength can kill a cow, but because you are missing too much in the depths of your soul, you will not be able to survive in the mortal world after leaving the harbor of home. Attack, without the accommodation of relatives, life is miserable!
Today’s children really need to reflect and wake up. Don’t have the “three highs” (high myopia, high body fat, and high arrogance) at a young age, but they also have the “three lows” (low ability to adapt to life, Low academic performance and enthusiasm, low requirements for oneself).
Did this article hit the pain points of today’s children and make you unhappy? You just know how to be unhappy! Except for your parents, no one else in this world has the obligation to accommodate you. In this case, why not reflect on yourself and strive to make progress?
[About the author] Tan Jinou , a literature lover, occasionally learns to write short articles in his spare time. author
