Nowadays, the pressure on young families is still very high. They are busy with work and have very little time to spend with their children. So the children at home are basically inseparable from the care of others. The elderly have become the main force in caring for the childre

Nowadays, the pressure on young families is still very high. They are busy with work and have very little time to spend with their children. So the children at home are basically inseparable from the care of others, and the older people have become the main caregivers for the children. military. Looking at the community, it is basically old people playing with their children.

I thought that the elderly at home would come to see their children, which would relieve a lot of the burden on the young. However, conflicts between the two generations have also begun to appear, and some problems will be directly exposed to the surface. But why are today's elderly people still busy with their children when they are old enough to enjoy their old age? In the end, they attract a lot of complaints.

In fact, these are caused by the differences in parenting concepts between the two generations. It is a good thing for parents at home to help take care of their children. If this rule can be established in advance, many conflicts can be avoided. This kind of rule, The sooner you say it, the better, it will be beneficial to both parties.

First: Take care of your children according to your ability to reduce the fatigue of parents.

Parents should set a timetable to help take care of their children. During the day, young people are busy going to work. When they come back at night, they can leave their children to young people to take care of them. This not only allows young people to participate in the growth of their children, but also alleviates the hardship of many elderly people.

Of course, some parents have children who work during the day and are too tired to take care of the children at night. They will always watch the children during the day and prepare dinner for the family at night. They also have to wait for the children to sleep at night and wait until the children fall asleep. It's the old man's rest time of the day.

Old people don’t need to make themselves so tired. Sometimes they don’t have enough energy to keep up. They may not look at their children and let them bump into each other, which will make them complain. The old people’s physical condition is not as good as when they were young, so A child's growth is not a matter of a few days. He must be prepared for a long battle, so he needs to conserve his physical strength. It is beneficial for both parties to get the whole family involved with the baby.

Second: There is no need for the elderly to subsidize their children to reduce the family burden

Many times the elderly spend money on their children to buy snacks and gifts. Supplementing children is completely unnecessary. You also need to keep some capital in your own life, and some children are not satisfied even if you invest all your wealth in them. When the time comes, you will get complaints from the children, and you will regret it and feel that it is too late to feed your conscience. .

Third: Don’t get involved in children’s education

In other words, when it comes to educating children, the elderly should get involved less. Even if the children have many problems that the elderly cannot tolerate, they should be disciplined appropriately. After all, the older generation Educational methods are no longer suitable for today's children, and there are great conflicts between the two sides in their parenting concepts. Therefore, the elderly must be less involved in the education of their children, and communicate more with their parents about their children's problems, so as to avoid conflicts.

Elderly people taking care of their children have become a part of life now, so the responsibility of the elderly is to help their children take care of them and reduce their burden. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your body and maintain your energy, so that both parties will benefit.