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Confused Chapter

"Look at other people's children, and then look at you, you can't do anything well?" This is what I have grown up with since I was a child. Big sound.

It is precisely because my parents often say this to me that I feel very low self-esteem. I feel that I am worthless. I always deny myself countless times before doing anything.

Now that I think about it, those parents’ so-called “good for you” can really ruin a child!

In my most beautiful youth, I have always had low self-esteem and sensitiveness. I dare not talk to others, and I will think a lot even when others say something.

Struggle Chapter

I collapsed about three months before the college entrance examination. During that time, my grades were particularly poor and my whole state collapsed.

All I could think about was the scene where my parents were quarreling because I was in high school. I already had low self-esteem and was sensitive, and my miserable grades made me feel deeply guilty towards my father, and I couldn’t calm down at all. study. The simulations of

defeated my last confidence.

I completely gave in to the college entrance examination. I was really too tired and had no energy to run anymore, and I didn’t want to run anymore.

The college entrance examination also ended in compromise.

Self-Healing Chapter

After the college entrance examination, I went to Xi'an Yuezhenxuan Hotel to work as a waiter, which completely refreshed my knowledge.

A meal of 100,000 yuan for someone else has already paid for two years of my salary. The end point of my lifelong efforts is just the starting point for others.

Thinking of this, the huge gap in my heart made me immediately doubt the meaning of my life.

suddenly remembered a sentence I once saw:

When you were a child, you discovered that you only need to work hard to get something. When you reach , , you are desperate, but you still can't get ;

When you mature, you find that although you can't get some things, you still have to work hard. , You accept your imperfect self and work hard down-to-earth.

I am now in the third category. I know that I have no family background and no background, so if I want to live the life I want, I must continue to force myself to be strong, so strong that I no longer rely on anyone .

Now I am studying in a private undergraduate university, and anxiety is still with me, but I believe that as long as I persist in changing, everything will be fine.

The most real thing about this world is that through hard work, everything is on the way to getting better.

and above, good night.

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