Has your child bitten or been bitten by someone else? Today, my daughter Feifei bit a child's hand while they were fighting over a toy. As a result, her sister bit someone else in a hurry. Deep tooth marks. My first reaction was to apologize first and then look at the wound. However, her mother said angrily: What's the use of just apologizing! I understand her anger, I would also be angry if my child was hurt. So I continued to say nice words, I'm sorry, it's my responsibility, I didn't take good care of the child. She asked me to buy soap, iodine , and cotton swabs. I said yes, go right away! So I went to pick my sister up to go, and she went to buy it while holding the baby in her arms. Later, she said she thought I was too slow, which made her even more angry. Sometimes there was really nothing she could do with the baby.
I ran out and bought it and handed it to her. She said in a very angry tone: Wait a minute. I waited nearby while he washed the child's hands. After washing, I opened the lid and he said he was not busy wiping it. I waited again. She returned to her position with the baby in her arms, and I followed her. I can understand all the people who ignore me and look at me with hatred, but I still greet them with a smile and keep apologizing.
I called my husband and told her to take her to the hospital. The doctor will check to see if there is any problem, whether treatment is needed, or anything else. After my husband arrived, she still said with a slumped face: No need to go, I said no need to go!
I am also very helpless. It is our fault and we are at fault. Just accept what others say and endure it! I left her a number and said if you have any questions later, call me and we'll deal with it in a timely manner. We will never escape what is given to us. Really sorry! As a result, others still ignored me, and I gradually lost my patience and prepared to take the children home. In the end, I asked her again to confirm whether she wanted to go to the hospital and ignored her. Sorry for ignoring you. If you call me if you have any questions, I still don't answer.
Okay, that's it! I took the kids home. This is the first time I have encountered such a situation. My child has never bitten other children, and I don’t know what happened. The child didn't know the consequences of that, because I didn't guide him well. When I got home, I kept thinking, what should I do if something like this happens again next time?
summed it up: If the skin is not broken by the bite, wash it with soap and apply it with an ice pack. The swelling will subside in a while.
If you bite the skin or bleed. The first thing you should do is wash the wound with soap and disinfect it with iodophor. Go to the hospital again and ask the doctor if you need an injection.
Have you ever encountered similar things? How would you handle it? Let’s discuss it together!
