I remember that the teacher once said in the parent-child class that there is actually no such thing as "rebellion" in children's adolescence. If every parent can master the knowledge of family education, understand the characteristics of children's adolescent growth, and keep up with the rhythm of their children's growth, then Therefore, there is no rebellion in children during adolescence, or the degree of rebellion in children is much smaller. Before
, I demanded and controlled my children all day long. All I saw were the children's bad behaviors, and I had constant quarrels with them. And when I studied family education, I understood the characteristics of adolescent children, and also understood that everyone is a sacred and unique individual who deserves to be respected and accepted. So, I truly understood, understood, respected and accepted my child from the bottom of my heart. Finally, I truly understood my child. Now I no longer act condescendingly as a parent, but become friends with my children. In life, we often joke, are humorous, and talk about anything. Our home is often filled with laughter, and everyone feels full of love and happiness. The following is a conversation I had with my child today:
Me: "Baby, can you help me get the express delivery?"
Child: "Well... (showing a little impatient), yes, yes, but you Are you considering paying me for running errands?"
Me: "Talk about money, it hurts feelings!"
Daughter: "Isn't there a saying that "brothers will settle accounts tomorrow"?
Me: "Hehe..."
Just In this way, my "laughing and laughing" with a little playful smile did not make the child feel any resistance. Instead, the child happily ran to get the express delivery.
When facing adolescent children, there are not so many "yes" and "no", not so many "right" and "incorrect", and not so many "should" and "shouldn't". Everything is It is solved within the relationship, and the core of building a good parent-child relationship is to be a soulful and interesting mother.
