As long as you have the courage and determination to "take responsibility for your own things", you will be able to overcome no matter how difficult the journey.
There are many parents like you. They said "I don't want to destroy the parent-child relationship, so I can't say anything to my children", while using "The teacher will help me figure out a solution, now I can only wait" to cover up Own worry.
However, even if you wait while worrying, it is only a "harmful" thing that aggravates the situation.
Parents like this are afraid to remind their children about their homework and attitude towards life, and they are also afraid to oppose their children's opinions.
They put all the responsibility on the teacher, and they want to put the responsibility on the teacher when the child has a problem.
If this state continues, the child will blame others for his mistakes. However, the parents did not realize that the cause of this bad habit was themselves. In order to establish a good parent-child relationship, what must be done
respect the child’s choice in learning, but let the child complete the homework seriously".
understands this rule, so she knows no matter what she does Mothers will accept classes and any school.
On the other hand, when you don’t take class seriously and don’t do homework, you won’t be accepted.
is a way of expressing this "unacceptable" feeling, of course also because of your parents It is different.
Some parents will talk to their children, and some parents will look forward to their children’s spiritual growth and encourage their children.
Some parents ban certain things to allow their children to think logically about the results, and some of them are Parents will get angry or angry.
Each method has effects and side effects. When deciding how to raise a child, parents must first understand the personality of themselves and their children.
Of course, it is advisable to let the children through dialogue Learn from the results. This is a proposition based on belief and reflection. I believe that only by reflecting on the past can we fulfill our responsibilities as a parent.
The most undesirable are parents who lack self-confidence and indecision. If you read this expert’s book today and listen to other experts tomorrow, it will be even more chaotic.
While restraining the family in order to establish a "good parent-child relationship", he constantly changes his opinions. Without firm beliefs, he is not respected by the children, and ultimately is far from a good parent-child relationship.
Let children learn independently, that is, not to impose their parents' ideas on the children, and to give the children the opportunity to think and choose by themselves. Parents are not transparent people, nor are they puppets.
Teachers are just parents' helpers and they can never replace them. "No matter what kind of teacher it is, I hope that the children’s learning mood is the same.
is just that each school and each teacher’s method is different, and it may not be suitable for their children.
Choose the most suitable one with the children Schools let children find the purpose of learning and become children responsible for their behavior. This is the bounden duty of parents in the world. No one can replace it.
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