Child stars, that is, child stars, in everyone’s perception, they are all very good children, and their talents, appearance, etc., are also the result of healthy development, and their lives will also be very happy and happy. of. But in fact, the lives of some child stars are not good, or even worse than ordinary children.
Before, because a 5-year-old child showed a peculiar childlike temperament, the mother of the child started to seize the opportunity to cultivate the child as a child model. How to cultivate it?
Everyone might think that this mother will definitely make the child eat and drink well, and learn some knowledge related to child models, maintain their own shape, and make the child healthier and more temperamental. If this is the case, it's not bad, but this mother didn't do it.
In order to keep the child's height low, he restricts his child to eat, only eat one meal a day, and is still vegetarian .
Because mothers know that once a child model grows taller, it will be of no value, and no one will look for a child to shoot an advertisement in the future, so she adopted a more extreme approach to her child.
However, when a child is growing up, he needs healthy nutrition, especially protein intake. If the mother does not feed the child, she will only feed the child a vegetarian diet, which is good for the healthy development of the child. It is very unfavorable.
When someone asked what is the child’s greatest wish, the child said that his greatest wish is to let himself eat KFC and just one meal. This is a heart-wrenching wish, but this child Has not been realized, so,This child's happiness in life is not as good as an ordinary child.
The child is not your "money cow": it is ugly that you are desperately squeezing your child
A child becoming a child star is something that parents can be proud of, because it represents the excellence of the child. However, it is very undesirable to guide children to become child stars in an unhealthy way, or to use children to become child stars for personal gain.
endangers the health of children.
There is a star in Taiwan, and everyone should have the impression that it is Ji Baoru . She was actually not valued by her family when she was a child, she became popular by chance and became a child star.
But, do you think that if Ji Baoru becomes a child star, the family will treat her differently? not at all.
In order to keep Ji Baoru as a child star for a long time, grandma gave Ji Baoru a growth stop needle , and used cloth strips to keep the female characteristics of Ji Baoru from being too prominent. Children's body shape.
It is precisely because of these operations of grandma that Ji Baoru's figure stays at 1.49m forever, can no longer grow taller.
This is a typical example,The family gave up the health of the child for money, and even deliberately persecuted the health of the child. And such an approach will make the child live in a state of "disability" throughout his life. Although the child seems to be healthy, the child's body has been devastatingly affected, and the child's psychology will also have a huge impact. Shadows, these will accompany children throughout their lives.
affects the parent-child relationship between children and their parents.
Niu Niu, a child model, is only three years old, but looks very sensible, very "confident" in front of the camera, her smile can melt people's hearts.
However, Niuniu, who seems to be happy, is not happy at all. Her life can even be described as intensely hot. Because her job is to try on children’s clothes, pose and pose, has a daily workload of more than ten hours , and what is even more unacceptable is that If Niuniu’s actions If it is not in place, she will be kicked by her mother immediately.
In such a situation, how can it be possible to establish a good parent-child relationship between the child and the parent?
Parents have nothing but life for their children, and even deprive them of their right to freedom.It's hard to imagine what life will be like after the child.
leads to misconceptions in children.
There is a Korean child model who became famous on the Internet and became an internet celebrity, and gained a lot of money in a short period of time. The parents are also very keen on making money , which led to the Child model has a certain conceptual difference.
Because parents think that money is the best, in the eyes of their children, their pursuit is to make money, show off their wealth and squander, so the children have also established this concept, and this child model has been very keen on doing it since then. Internet celebrities.
When the child model was asked about his ideals, he said to make money and find a wife who is worthy of beauty.
At a young age, ideals are very vulgar. This is the consequence of parents treating their children as "money cows", and it is difficult for children to regain their original healthy mentality.
Children should be treated well whether they are child stars or not. Disregard it.
However, it is not recommended that parents pursue their children to be child stars too much.Because it is difficult to be a child star, it is difficult for ordinary families to achieve it.
Some parents do not give up and want to "build" their children through some art institutions. Although these institutions have stated that they can package children as child stars, and can help children participate in programs, recording works, etc., parents should keep their eyes open to see if the institution can really do it.
Many organizations now take the child’s tuition, and use a very simple way to shoot a MV for the child as a "masterpiece", and then find some "cooperative" media to let the child show the so-called "program" "In fact, the child did not really become a child star, but was just wrapped up. And the goal of this package is just to make children become parents of child stars.
Therefore, parents should treat their children as child stars objectively, and don't be too deeply disturbed by emotions, and don't be blinded by money.
Concluding remarks
Children are not cash cows. Please parents do not use their children to make money on the grounds of “being good for their children”. As a parent, you should pay more attention to the inner cultivation of the child, because the value of the inner "beauty" is more beneficial to the child than the outer one. Do you agree?
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