I sometimes feel anxious and nervous. Now think about it carefully. Maybe it was brought to me invisibly by my mother when I was a child, or maybe it was inherited from my mother.
My mother is a housewife, far less capable, shrewd, and aggressive than other rural women. The big and small things in the family are all my dad asks for help and solves it. Dad is the big tree of our family, and also the patron of mother. Whenever a mother encounters anything, her true thoughts and true emotions will be revealed the first time.
I am imperceptibly influenced by my mother, and I am not good at hiding my emotions. Recently this year, I have slowly realized that this is not good, and I am afraid that it will have a greater negative impact on my daughter.
My daughter is nervous for the college entrance examination this year, and I am even more nervous, but I can't let her see it, let her know that the college entrance examination is a link that everyone must pass, not an insurmountable mountain. On the eve of the college entrance examination, we had exchanged views on the minor situations that may arise in the college entrance examination.
Questions about stomach trouble:
Her: What if I want to go to the toilet during the exam if I break my stomach?
Me: Your school canteen and the marketing bureau attach great importance to food during the college entrance examination. The marketing bureau has a dedicated person responsible for food safety in the cafeteria. As long as you decide not to eat raw and cold ones, eat less greasy ones, and eat more digestible ones, generally no problem. I will also prepare some common medicines for you. You can take some if you feel sick. The school has hospital ambulances, doctors and nurses are on duty, they can help you with minor problems.
Questions about insomnia:
Her: What if I suffer from insomnia and it affects my grades?
Me: Answer the questions carefully during the exam, and don't think about it again after the exam. If you really suffer from insomnia, it will have little effect on your performance. When I took the college entrance examination in 1993, it was three days (this year, our province implemented the new college entrance examination, which is also three days). I also suffered from insomnia one night and did not fall asleep almost overnight, which did not affect the college entrance examination results.
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After the college entrance examination, I asked her if she had insomnia? She said she didn't have insomnia. I passed the college entrance examination safely, and my results were relatively normal.
Yesterday they started school, and the dormitory and bed were designated. It was the upper bunk. She used to live in the lower bunk in high school, but never in the upper bunk.I began to worry about whether it would fall down on the upper bunk. This morning, I sent a WeChat message and said that after a try, the upper bunk was okay.
Therefore, parents should not exaggerate the problems encountered by the child, calm down the child’s emotions, guide the child, and help the child find a solution.
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